{"id":92,"date":"2007-08-04T23:25:35","date_gmt":"2007-08-04T23:25:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2007\/08\/custody-of-the-eyes.html"},"modified":"2007-08-04T23:25:35","modified_gmt":"2007-08-04T23:25:35","slug":"custody-of-the-eyes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2007\/08\/custody-of-the-eyes.html","title":{"rendered":"Custody of the eyes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/amywelborn\/1009941210\/\" title=\"Photo Sharing\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" vspace=\"10\" align=\"left\" width=\"240\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.static.flickr.com\/1192\/1009941210_10817a3d27_m.jpg\" hspace=\"10\" alt=\"Envy, defined\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a>We had marvelous weather for most of the week we spent at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wellsmaine.com\/best\/drakesbeach.html\">Drake&#8217;s Island.<\/a>\u00a0It was hot and sunny, which made the water almost swimmable. Well, it was swimmable for many, but not for me. Been there, done that &#8211; Maine ocean temperatures were the only such thing I knew until I was in my 30&#8217;s, so I feel no obligation at this point to do anything but dip in a couple of times to test my own mettle, and then get out and bake.<br \/>\nSo we walked the block or so to the beach every morning. Just about the same time as we settled, this Quebecois clan settled next to us &#8211; one of many Quebecois clans on the beach, not surprisingly. This family group came well-equipped, as you can see, with the nifty bright yellow wagon chock-full of toys.<br \/>\nFor a moment each morning, all some of us could do was stare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We had marvelous weather for most of the week we spent at Drake&#8217;s Island.\u00a0It was hot and sunny, which made the water almost swimmable. Well, it was swimmable for many, but not for me. 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