{"id":6454,"date":"2005-06-21T09:55:50","date_gmt":"2005-06-21T09:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2005\/06\/life-and-its-quality.html"},"modified":"2005-06-21T09:55:50","modified_gmt":"2005-06-21T09:55:50","slug":"life-and-its-quality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2005\/06\/life-and-its-quality.html","title":{"rendered":"Life and its quality"},"content":{"rendered":"

The reader who sent this in titled his email: Three days, two stories, one existential chasm, same newspaper.<\/em><\/p>\n

(The paper requires registration, btw)<\/p>\n

Peter Singer spoke to an audience of 900<\/a><\/p>\n

(See, that in itself is frightening to me. Singer can get 900 out in Nebraska at a talk sponsored by Unitarians?)<\/p>\n

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Singer’s 50-minute speech, followed by a question-and-answer session, marked the kickoff of the Holland Lecture Series sponsored by the First Unitarian Church of Omaha. Singer drew sustained applause at the evening’s conclusion.<\/p>\n

Whether discussing the point where death occurs, stem-cell research, abortion or euthanasia, Singer painstakingly defended his views and contrasted them with what he called the traditionalist idea of "all life being sacred" no matter its quality.<\/p>\n

"I believe the view I’m putting forward is more defensible than the traditional position," Singer said. "We need to have this debate and discussion so that we can work things out."<\/p>\n

Quality of life, Singer said, is an important measuring stick when discussing when life begins and ends.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n

A father’s greatest gift: a man stays by his infant son’s side<\/a><\/p>\n

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Jake Lee Brethauer was born with Down syndrome on March 1 in North Platte. Eight weeks early, the red-haired, blue-eyed baby weighed 3 pounds, 1<\/sup>\/2<\/sub><\/span> ounce. Doctors had to resuscitate him twice.<\/p>\n

Jake soon was on a plane to Omaha and the neonatal intensive care unit at the Nebraska Medical Center. Doctors inserted a feeding tube because his esophagus wasn’t attached to his stomach.<\/p>\n

The infant has been in the NICU ever since. His mom stayed for the first month. As the family’s primary wage-earner, she had to return to her nursing job in North Platte.<\/p>\n

Dad stayed behind. For the moment, he’s Jake’s primary parent, spending nine-hour days in the NICU among doctors and nurses more used to dealing with moms than dads.<\/p>\n

Jack lives alone for five days each week at the Ronald McDonald House. By 8:30, he’s with Jake, where he remains unless he’s eating meals or taking a short break. He leaves about 9 each night after bath time.<\/p>\n

This isn’t how Jack and his wife, Monica, saw parenthood when they married 13 years ago. They decided to wait several years to have children. They were getting established – Monica as a psych nurse, Jack as a machinist with Union Pacific.<\/p>\n

But Jack hurt his back and hip joint in 2000, the year they planned to start their family. Four years of hospital stays and surgeries followed; Jack now is on permanent disability.<\/p>\n

It made sense for him to stay with Jake.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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