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…that some day, I’d be on the phone with my oldest son, having a discussion about Silence<\/a>, by Shusaku Endo, which he had read out of his own free will…<\/p>\n

I would have laughed and laughed and laughed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Not that he isn’t smart – he is. Very.  Not that he’s never been a reader – he was – up until about 7th grade. And, for a couple of years before that, his book-reading had mostly been the fruit of bribery – he’d get a comic book in exchange for reading 4 "real" books, and so on. He didn’t like fantasy or sci-fi, very typical routes for adolescent male readers, and I sort of ran out of energy on that particular battlefront, at that point, myself.<\/p>\n

Imagine my surprise a year or so ago, when he started asking me for suggestions on books to read. He’d gotten back into the habit, thanks to Chuck Palahnuik and Fight Club<\/em>.  In the year since, he’s got a book going most of the time, despite the fact that he’s been carrying a very full load in school (Which is also surprising – recreational reading during college, I mean. I’m pretty sure I didn’t read a book for personal entertainment purposes between 1978-1982, myself.) <\/p>\n

Longtime readers may recall that I asked for suggestions for him around Christmas. Frequently mentioned was Confederacy of Dunces<\/em>, which I bought for him, which he read, and now, I discovered, he often lists as his favorite book. Whodathunkit.<\/p>\n

However, after reading a bunch of my suggestions,  including The Power and the Glory<\/em> and Silence<\/em>, he said, "Mom, I need something lighter." Umm…I thought. Before I could answer he said, "What about Catch-22?"<\/em> Great idea, I said. "I thought so," he continued. "I was going to Barnes and Nobles to get that and the Ric Flair book.<\/a>"<\/p>\n

Ah, well. Reliving pre-adolescence in more ways than one.<\/p>\n

And yes, I did send him this amusing Peter Vere post about the ways of God and wrestlers.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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