{"id":4497,"date":"2006-11-20T00:25:24","date_gmt":"2006-11-20T00:25:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2006\/11\/its-un-christian.html"},"modified":"2006-11-20T00:25:24","modified_gmt":"2006-11-20T00:25:24","slug":"its-un-christian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2006\/11\/its-un-christian.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;It&#8217;s Un-Christian!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The pastor at the parish we usually attend (that of &quot;Lights! Lights!&quot;) could have his photograph next to the entry on &quot;Low Key&quot; in the dictionary, if there was one. Really. Even though he strikes us as being the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Robert_Moses\">Robert Moses<\/a> of his part of town, when he&#8217;s offering Mass, he&#8217;s all business (the business of prayer, we assume)  and lets himself get absorbed in the liturgy. Which is, naturally, why we go there.<\/p>\n<p>His homilies are never longer than 7 minutes, and they&#8217;re fine, even though for all I know, what I hear on any given Sunday is what I would have heard on that same Sunday 3 years previously. I really don&#8217;t care. There&#8217;s always <em>a point<\/em>. Succinctly delivered, before we move on. Which is refereshing. <\/p>\n<p>So anyway, today, inspired by&nbsp; something in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.universalis.com\/20061119\/mass.htm\">Mass readings <\/a>, he preached about death &#8211; specifically, the Christian attitude to death. He went on, for him, a tear about families that have, as he called it, a &quot;Victorian&quot; attitude toward death, and never speak of it, and are fearful of even mentioning it. &quot;If that&#8217;s your family&#8217;s tradition,&quot; he said firmly, &quot;<em>For God&#8217;s sake<\/em>, stop it. It&#8217;s <em>Un-Christian.<\/em>&quot; <\/p>\n<p>I was rather impressed. I also wondered if he had something of a tussle or frustrating experience with a family recently. Could be. But I&#8217;ll also say &#8211; families with young children take note. We sat three rows from the front&#8230;and never had to leave once. Joseph is starting to behave exceptionally well, being <em>quite <\/em>interested in trying to follow along in the Mass books, as I said before. And Michael was, I suppose, caught up in thanksgiving for the gift of his life. Or the Sesame Street coloring book, I&#8217;m not sure which.<\/p>\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re confronted with death or a 2-year old, just remember&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Hope is a virtue!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The pastor at the parish we usually attend (that of &quot;Lights! Lights!&quot;) could have his photograph next to the entry on &quot;Low Key&quot; in the dictionary, if there was one. Really. 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