{"id":4007,"date":"2006-03-17T16:49:51","date_gmt":"2006-03-17T16:49:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2006\/03\/how-to-not-look-like-a-tourist.html"},"modified":"2006-03-17T16:49:51","modified_gmt":"2006-03-17T16:49:51","slug":"how-to-not-look-like-a-tourist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2006\/03\/how-to-not-look-like-a-tourist.html","title":{"rendered":"How to not look like a tourist"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s always a big concern for American travelers&#8230;will we look like tourists? How should we dress and act so we &quot;fit in?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>Part of the concern is safety, I do believe. No one wants to be a target. But part of it also stems from, well, wanting to look like you belong in the place you&#8217;re visiting.<\/p>\n<p>So, I came to believe&#8230;no uber casual clothes, NO WHITE TENNIS SHOES (which I don&#8217;t wear anyway)&#8230;don&#8217;t stand in the middle of the road studying your map, and so on.<\/p>\n<p>Well&#8230;too bad.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the dress code business would have been more of an issue in warm weather, but in late February, it really wasn&#8217;t. I saw <em>plenty<\/em> of women wearing jeans. Now, you will not see Italian women dressed like most of the people I&#8217;ll see when I go to Kroger&#8217;s later today &#8211; including me. There is a sense of being &quot;put together&quot; rather than &quot;thrown on.&quot; And there were a couple of important accessories that distinguished the Italian women from the rest of us:<\/p>\n<p>Scarves and boots. Most Italian women went out with both &#8211; loved seeing them perched on their motorcycles dressed in that way.&nbsp; To <em>really<\/em> fit in, that&#8217;s what you need &#8211; a scarf that could, if spread out, double as a shawl, tastefully thrown around your shoulders, and some great leather boots. Big earrings quite often, as well.<\/p>\n<p>As I said, though, the summer might be a different story&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>As for not wanting to wander with maps and guidebooks in hand&nbsp; &#8211; give up. <\/p>\n<p>First off, if you try to do Rome without a map..you&#8217;re sunk. It&#8217;s hard enough <em>with <\/em>a map.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly &#8211; if every person I saw in Rome who was holding either a map or a guidebook (usually the Eyewitness Guide, in any number of languages) was suddenly Raptured&#8230;all that would be left would be shopkeepers and the Pope. Honestly. Even outside the areas that you&#8217;d expect to find tourists &#8211; there we were, usually 2 out of every 3 people you&#8217;d see &#8211; <em>at least &#8211; <\/em>, holding maps, clutching guidebooks, looking alternately confused and awed.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s always a big concern for American travelers&#8230;will we look like tourists? How should we dress and act so we &quot;fit in?&quot; Part of the concern is safety, I do believe. No one wants to be a target. 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