{"id":3681,"date":"2006-03-27T23:54:34","date_gmt":"2006-03-27T23:54:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2006\/03\/finding-her-religion.html"},"modified":"2006-03-27T23:54:34","modified_gmt":"2006-03-27T23:54:34","slug":"finding-her-religion","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2006\/03\/finding-her-religion.html","title":{"rendered":"Finding her religion"},"content":{"rendered":"

As part of the continuing series in the SF Chronicle, Mary Karr, author of The Liar’s Club, discusses her conversion to Catholicism<\/a><\/p>\n

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…I know the two of you spent a lot of time exploring different faiths together to see what felt comfortable for you. You went to Jewish temples, a Buddhist zendo and various Christian churches. What attracted you to Catholicism in particular? <\/strong><\/p>\n

The carnality of it. That there is a body on the cross. It’s not just an idea. It’s real. If you go into an Episcopal church, that’s pretty f–ing subtle. You know, there’s a big cross — it’s like an electric chair hanging on the wall. <\/p>\n

I wouldn’t have thought I’d feel that way, because I had all of these intellectual friends who went to, say, Unitarian or Unity and Episcopal churches. I went to all these churches, and I thought: "This is just a bunch of white, rich, educated people saying: ‘Let’s be nice to each other. And let’s be nice in the world.’" <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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One of the things I liked during Mass was that they have the "Time of Intentions," where they have people say if they have any prayer intentions. Some people say it’s gratitude that their daughter made it safely to Ethiopia or "Please pray for my son, who has leukemia." To be in the presence of people’s hopes and people’s terrors — their agonies stated out loud in the world — made them human to me. And it made me not feel so different from them. <\/p>\n

I have a lot of intellectual pride. I spend a lot of my life feeling different, feeling special. I guess for an artist that’s kind of necessary, but I also have a sense that my heart gets bigger when I don’t feel like I’m, you know … <\/p>\n

Like God? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Yeah. Or Satan. Either one. When you’re around drug addicts or people who are mentally ill, it makes your heart bigger. It really does. You know, the church I went to in Syracuse was right by all the halfway houses. And I would say from 20 to 30 percent of the congregation was disabled, mentally or physically. So it was the halt and the lame. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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