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More from St. Paul-Minneapolis: University of St. Thomas student commencement speaker makes waves:<\/a><\/p>\n

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Commencement offered the chance to put all the divisive issues aside. As is the custom, the student-selected Tommie of the Year speaks at graduation.<\/p>\n

"The speech started out pretty normal," Aus said. Then, he said, Kessler began talking about his disappointment at fellow students after a spring dance when a food fight became intense enough that security was summoned.<\/p>\n

"His disappointment kind of snowballed," Aus said.<\/p>\n

Kessler also alluded to the unmarried professors caught up in the travel policy battles, calling them selfish. And he then called women who use birth control selfish.<\/p>\n

He also called himself selfish and said he needed to be a better person, said university spokesman Doug Hennes.<\/p>\n

Some defended his remarks, while others said he had no business raising hot topics on a day dedicated to students and families celebrating years of hard academic work.<\/p>\n

Aus and other students were upset that St. Thomas officials didn’t stop the speech.<\/p>\n

"If someone were to start talking about their beliefs on gay rights, I guarantee you someone from the administration would have put an end to it right away," Aus said.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n

The university president’s statement:<\/a><\/p>\n

regret that the graduates and their families and guests were offended by Mr. Kessler’s remarks. Again, I want to congratulate our graduates on their achievements, and I wish them the very best in all of their future endeavors. <\/p>\n

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Mr. Kessler has shared the following statement with my office today: "I’d like to take this opportunity to comment on the undergraduate commencement address that I gave on Saturday, May 20. <\/p>\n

"I first would like to apologize to all offended by my words. As I stated in the opening line of my address, graduation is a time to look back and a time to look ahead. <\/p>\n

"On Saturday, I looked back at some issues our university and our society have faced. I then looked ahead and tried to provide hope to all in attendance. Instead of providing hope to all, I offended some by my words and by my decision to speak those words at commencement. I sincerely apologize to each person I offended." <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I watched the speech and fail to see it being an incredibly big deal. With all due respect to Kessler, to call it a "rant" as some have done is to ignore the tone, which was measured to the point of stilted.  I see that what inspired him initially was a food fight, and he alluded to it later in the speech in a rather well-done metaphor. I don’t fault Kessler for taking his speech in this direction – but even starting from the same point, one could have written something that challenged the students to (basically) grow up, look outward and live for others without providing a massive distraction.  But, in the end, the spectre of the heckling at the suggestion that pre-marital sex is selfish (which was his real point), the formulaic apologies, and so on, are tiresome – free speech, anyone? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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