{"id":158,"date":"2007-09-07T13:28:18","date_gmt":"2007-09-07T13:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/viamedia\/2007\/09\/when-did-we-see-you.html"},"modified":"2007-09-07T13:28:18","modified_gmt":"2007-09-07T13:28:18","slug":"when-did-we-see-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/viamedia\/2007\/09\/when-did-we-see-you.html","title":{"rendered":"When did we see you"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Two notes on reaching out:<br \/>\nThanks to a reader for sending along <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/secure.crcpublicrelations.com\/exchweb\/bin\/redir.asp?URL=http:\/\/www.washingtontimes.com\/article\/20070907\/CULTURE\/109070052\/1015\">this Washington Times story <\/a>on a new home for single pregnant women and young mothers:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em><font color=\"#000000\">The home is named for Paul Stefan James, the son of Randy and Evie James, who lived one hour after being born without lungs. Mrs. James was told by her doctor that she should go to Kansas to obtain a late-term abortion. She and her husband refused, then turned to God for strength and guidance throughout the rest of the pregnancy.<\/font><\/em><em><font color=\"#000000\">On the same day that the couple received the news that the child would be born without lungs, Mrs. James&#8217; &#8220;Chicken Soup for the Soul&#8221; daily calendar had a piece of encouragement for the expectant mother&#8217;s soul, which referenced a baby with &#8220;an amazing set of lungs.&#8221;<br \/>\nFather Starzynski suggested that Mrs. James read the encouraging words every day, although he suggested that the &#8220;amazing set of lungs&#8221; may not come in the form of the miracle she expected.<br \/>\nMeanwhile, the priest felt inspired to begin an unwed mothers home. The Jameses soon felt called to become active in the pro-life movement, though they weren&#8217;t sure what to expect. Paul Stefan was born Dec. 15, 2005, and was baptized before he died. He was named in honor of Father Starzynski and the Rev. Paul Scalia, son of U.S. Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia.<br \/>\nThe Jameses accepted God&#8217;s call by partnering with Father Starzynski to begin a home for unwed mothers, something they all hope will be the beginning of a national movement. Mrs. James understood why Paul Stefan&#8217;s &#8220;set of lungs&#8221; was so amazing. <!-- D([\"mb\",\"\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nOutside groups are helping to support the home. Piedmont United Way is providing\\nassistance to the home, and Williams Cos., a natural-gas business based in Tulsa, Okla.,\\nleased a large parcel to the Paul Stefan Foundation for only $1 per year. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nThe property has one large, comfortable, furnished home that is serving five\\nwomen and five babies. Another site that will open eventually will allow the\\nhome to care for about 10 women. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n&quot;I think we&#039;ve become like family,&quot; said Barbara Staiger, a\\nregistered nurse who volunteers at the home. She said the home provides\\nholistic care for women to meet their emotional, physical and spiritual needs.\\nThe home respects the faith of all of the women. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nOne mother at the home, Sienna, found only a few facilities like the one in Virginia during an\\nInternet search. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n&quot;It was wonderful to just land here and not worry if I&#039;m going to have a\\nplace to sleep,&quot; she said. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nAnother mother, Erin, gave birth to the first baby to live at the home. Andrew\\nwas born one year to the day after Paul Stefan was born. Erin\\nsaid her dream is &quot;getting a job, getting my own place, then hopefully\\ngoing to college.&quot; \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nThe manager of the home, Patricia Newman, said she hopes to bring in volunteers\\nto teach vocational and life skills to the women. Mrs. Newman, who was an unwed\\nmother herself, said it is nice to be able to say at times, &quot;I\\nunderstand,&quot; because she knows some of the difficulties firsthand. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nBeing a single and pregnant is &quot;a hard thing to do,&quot; said Mrs.\\nNewman, who is now married to the father of her 12- and 7-year old sons.\\n&quot;I remember just praying, &#039;What should I do? What should I do?&#039; &quot; \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nMany people have asked about starting similar unwed mothers homes in other\\ncities. Others have offered their property for the cause. \\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\n\\u003cbr\\&amp;gt;\\nFather Starzynski and Mr. and Mrs. James say they hope the home will inspire\\nChristians nationwide to live out the message of the Gospels through charity\\ntoward all human life, including unwed mothers, the unborn and infants. They\\nwant the \",1] );  \/\/--><br \/>\nOutside groups are helping to support the home. Piedmont United Way is providing assistance to the home, and Williams Cos., a natural-gas business based in Tulsa, Okla., leased a large parcel to the Paul Stefan Foundation for only $1 per year.<br \/>\nThe property has one large, comfortable, furnished home that is serving five women and five babies. Another site that will open eventually will allow the home to care for about 10 women.<br \/>\n<\/font><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><font color=\"#000000\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/paulstefanhome.org\/\">The home&#8217;s website is here,<\/a> with information about how you can donate and help in other ways if you live in the area (Northern Virginia)<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\">Then, via the excellent blog from <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/deacbench.blogspot.com\/\">Deacon Greg Kendra<\/a>, this <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.catholic.org\/diocese\/diocese_story.php?id=25271\">Catholic Online story (originally from the Denver Catholic\u00a0Register) \u00a0<\/a>about a college student with a mission:<\/font><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><font size=\"+0\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>Timothy Reidy is an average all-American college student who never thought he would be using something like YouTube to promote a cause he is passionate about. <\/em><\/font><\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\"><em>Born and raised in Denver, he went to St. Thomas More School, followed by four years of Regis Jesuit High School. This month, Reidy will start his junior year at the University of Notre Dame, where he is majoring in architecture. He knows undoubtedly what his two passions in life are: \u201cDesigning, and working with the poor.\u201d<\/em><\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\"><em>This summer he had the opportunity to exercise both when he spent nine weeks in Africa, on the western plain of Uganda. The village where Reidy stayed was called Kyarusozi. He taught mathematics and speech in a Catholic school, St. Joseph Kyembogo (pronounced Chim-bogo). It was there he worked with underprivileged families, finding himself in love with the genuine Catholic identity embodied in the tribal people.<\/em><\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\"><em>\u201cIn Uganda,\u201d said Reidy, \u201cyou see the Church so deeply engrained in the culture that it comes out so easily. There are no distractions from God. Faith is so easy there.\u201d<\/em><\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\"><em>\u201cThere\u2019s an awesome greeting they have in Rutoro,\u201d he added, describing one of 30 tribal languages spoken in Uganda. \u201c\u2018Jesu nakugonza\u2019! It means \u2018Jesus loves you!\u2019\u201d <\/em><\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#000000\"><em>snip<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>When Reidy returned to America, occupied with the thought of his students and their families, he had the idea of making a slide show in order to raise money for the school. He began designing a video on Windows Movie Maker using the pictures and short video he took with his digital camera.<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>\u201cI pulled two all-nighters to make the film,\u201d said Reidy. \u201cYou know because I am an \u2018arky\u2019.\u201d <\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>Once the video was finished, the impassioned architect student decided to place it on YouTube. <\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>\u201cIt was only after that, I realized its potential,\u201d he said, explaining that he had 50 views before telling anyone about it.<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>Keeping his YouTube link as the main reference, Reidy has started to develop other ways of raising money for his students at St. Joseph\u2019s School. One of his ideas include organizing a Walkathon for American school children, to not only be in solidarity with the Ugandan students who might walk a minimum of four hours a day just to attend school, but also to have the kids ask parents, grandparents, or relatives for a money donation toward every mile they walk. If the donors require an explanation of where the funds are going, Reidy has given his would-be cooperators the perfect explanation. <\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>\u201cJust go to the link,\u201d he says confidently. \u201cIt\u2019s all right there.\u201d<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>Reidy\u2019s YouTube video is compelling, capturing the infectious spirit of the Ugandans, their dismal plight and Reidy\u2019s obvious love for them. He hopes it will help St. Joseph Kyembogo School raise the $30,000 necessary to build dormitories so the students won\u2019t have to make their arduous commutes, thereby enhancing their education by enabling them to spend more time on their studies.<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\"><font color=\"#000000\"><em>Reidy is excited about the opportunity YouTube presents to effectively communicate global social concerns using creativity and ingenuity.<\/em><\/font><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"para\"><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=-vuKgnIN7hM\">The video is here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">The address for donations is at the end of the video, but in case you miss it, it&#8217;s:<\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">Holy Cross Mission Center<\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">PO Box 543<\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">Notre Dame, IN 46556-0543<\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">And include a note indicating that your donation is for &#8220;Boy&#8217;s Dormitory, St. Joseph&#8217;s Senior School, Kyembogo, Uganda&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"para\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two notes on reaching out: Thanks to a reader for sending along this Washington Times story on a new home for single pregnant women and young mothers: The home is named for Paul Stefan James, the son of Randy and Evie James, who lived one hour after being born without lungs. 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