{"id":993,"date":"2013-08-21T12:49:20","date_gmt":"2013-08-21T16:49:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/truthsyoucanuse\/?p=993"},"modified":"2013-08-21T14:13:58","modified_gmt":"2013-08-21T18:13:58","slug":"can-god-make-you-a-better-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/truthsyoucanuse\/2013\/08\/can-god-make-you-a-better-person.html","title":{"rendered":"Can God Make You A Better Person?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cWithout God all things are permissible.\u201d<\/em> -Fyodor Dostoyevsky<\/p>\n

I was recently in the executive lounge at an upscale hotel. After filling my plate with pita chips and hummus, I began nibbling on the way back to my table. A chip (somehow!) fell from my hand. I picked it up and continued walking.<\/p>\n

\"food\"<\/a><\/p>\n

A few seconds later, a server rushed over and began thanking me profusely.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat did I do?\u201d I asked. \u201cYou picked up the cracker and threw it away,\u201d he exclaimed. \u201cYou would not believe how many people don\u2019t. Most kick it with their foot, creating more crumbs, and try to hide it under the table.\u201d<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t believe my ears. Picking it up seemed like a natural courtesy. You drop something. You pick it up. Now I was being treated like a saint for doing so. Has civility and manners in our culture really deteriorated to such a point?<\/p>\n

Someone Is Watching<\/b><\/p>\n

Perhaps we need to be reminded of an old Jewish story. It tells of a famous rabbi who hired an assistant to be with him at all times.The assistant had a simple job. Every hour he was to say out aloud, \u201cSomeone is watching.\u201d Even if they were alone at night walking, the assistant had to say it.<\/p>\n

Through this simple story, the rabbi was teaching us something profound about the role of faith. It reminds us to do what is right, even when no one is watching. God is the voice from outside of us that lives inside of us. When we hear God\u2019s voice, we know we are not alone.<\/em> We know our deeds matter, even if no one is watching.<\/p>\n

How Do I Teach My Kids?\u00a0\"Mother<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

As a parent of young children, I struggle to find ways to teach them this lesson. My faith has been the best means for doing so. My Jewish values remind me of what is right and good. Prayer reminds me to pay attention and follow the voice of conscience that I hear, but could easily ignore.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t believe faith is the only way to teach such values. Nor am not saying every religious person has good values and good manners.<\/p>\n

Rather, I am saying faith reminds us to take right and wrong seriously, even if those around us do not. It reminds us of what is right and good. It compels us to pay attention and listen to the voice of conscience we hear inside us.<\/p>\n

What do you think?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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