{"id":257,"date":"2009-03-05T15:28:05","date_gmt":"2009-03-05T15:28:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/when-i-turned-the-other-cheek.html"},"modified":"2009-03-05T15:28:05","modified_gmt":"2009-03-05T15:28:05","slug":"when-i-turned-the-other-cheek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/when-i-turned-the-other-cheek.html","title":{"rendered":"When I Turned the Other Cheek"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s been a tasty little discussion here at The New Christians about <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/youth-pastor-fight-club.html\">turning<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/the-sermon-on-the-mount-is-an.html\">the<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/comment-of-the-day-38.html\">other<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/comment-of-the-day-2-2.html\">cheek<\/a>, and I was reminded of a moment in 10th grade &#8212; the only time I know when I actually did it.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>I was in the lowest level of band &#8212; the band where the kids who couldn&#8217;t make the Concert Band or the Varsity Band were placed.&nbsp; There were only about fifteen of us, not enough to actually play anything as a band.&nbsp; So we basically just had individual lessons with the instructor, who clearly hated being there. <\/p>\n<p>I played the trombone&#8230;badly.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>So, those of us who weren&#8217;t receiving instruction on our instruments basically spent the entire hour screwing off.&nbsp; One day, I somehow found myself in a small corridor off the band room with a couple other guys, guys with whom I did not get along.<\/p>\n<p>Tensions were rising.&nbsp; They were bullying me physically, and I was countering them verbally.&nbsp; Then, one of them slapped me hard across the face.<\/p>\n<p>Tears burned in my eyes.&nbsp; My cheeks flushed red, and my I felt my throat immediately go dry. My heart pounded in my chest.<\/p>\n<p>And, something possessed me to put into practice the verse that I&#8217;d heard so many times.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at him, turned my face, and said with a quivering voice, &#8220;Here, hit my other cheek, too.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He and his friend looked at me, dumbfounded, and walked away.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s it.&nbsp; That&#8217;s the end of the story.<\/p>\n<p><i>Have you ever tried turning the other cheek?<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s been a tasty little discussion here at The New Christians about turning the other cheek, and I was reminded of a moment in 10th grade &#8212; the only time I know when I actually did it.&nbsp; I was in the lowest level of band &#8212; the band where the kids who couldn&#8217;t make the&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":134,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bible"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>When I Turned the Other Cheek - The New Christians<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/tonyjones\/2009\/03\/when-i-turned-the-other-cheek.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"When I Turned the Other Cheek - The New Christians\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"There&#8217;s been a tasty little discussion here at The New Christians about turning the other cheek, and I was reminded of a moment in 10th grade &#8212; 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