{"id":166,"date":"2009-01-22T12:20:03","date_gmt":"2009-01-22T12:20:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/01\/is-motherhood-a-calling.html"},"modified":"2009-01-22T12:20:03","modified_gmt":"2009-01-22T12:20:03","slug":"is-motherhood-a-calling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/tonyjones\/2009\/01\/is-motherhood-a-calling.html","title":{"rendered":"Is Motherhood a &#8220;Calling&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My dear friend, <a href=\"http:\/\/themommyrevolution.wordpress.com\/about-caryn-and-carla\/\">Carla<\/a>, and her co-blogger <a href=\"http:\/\/themommyrevolution.wordpress.com\/about-caryn-and-carla\/\">Caryn<\/a> over at <a href=\"http:\/\/themommyrevolution.wordpress.com\/2009\/01\/15\/is-motherhood-a-calling\/\">TheMommyRevolution<\/a> answer with a robust No!&nbsp; Money Quote:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p> <strong>It boarders on idolatry.<\/strong>&nbsp;Dave made a statement that<br \/>\ntroubles me to no end. It is just the kind of statement that sends a<br \/>\ndeeper message to mothers: Dave mentions that a woman&#8217;s proper focus is<br \/>\nthe family. I&#8217;m not sure where he gets that. Well, I know where he gets<br \/>\nit, but I don&#8217;t know what biblical basis he has for that statement. As<br \/>\nI said, the gospel doesn&#8217;t include specifics about parenting. Jesus<br \/>\ndidn&#8217;t exempt mothers from participating in God&#8217;s work in the world.<br \/>\nAnd Jesus wasn&#8217;t just talking to the men when he told his followers to<br \/>\nfeed and clothe and visit the poor and imprisoned. The idea that my<br \/>\nthree children are more important than other people goes against<br \/>\neverything the Bible teaches. It makes an idol of my family. So I can&#8217;t<br \/>\njustify having tunnel vision about my parenting. I can&#8217;t call myself a<br \/>\nChristian and then live a life that centers only on a small, select<br \/>\ngroup of people-no matter how much I love those people. And I can&#8217;t<br \/>\nfathom God giving me gifts and passions and dreams with the intention<br \/>\nthat I limit the use of those to the lives of three people. There is a<br \/>\nhuge, hurting world out there and mothers-with our heightened<br \/>\ncompassion, our deepened sense of justice, our ever-growing longing for<br \/>\na better world-are uniquely qualified to get out there and work toward<br \/>\nbringing about the kingdom of God. I could go on and on about mothers<br \/>\nwho have changed the world, but we&#8217;ll save that for another post.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My dear friend, Carla, and her co-blogger Caryn over at TheMommyRevolution answer with a robust No!&nbsp; Money Quote: It boarders on idolatry.&nbsp;Dave made a statement that troubles me to no end. 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