{"id":117,"date":"2009-01-03T13:38:25","date_gmt":"2009-01-03T13:38:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/tonyjones\/2009\/01\/richard-dawkins-and-really-bel.html"},"modified":"2009-01-03T13:38:25","modified_gmt":"2009-01-03T13:38:25","slug":"richard-dawkins-and-really-bel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/tonyjones\/2009\/01\/richard-dawkins-and-really-bel.html","title":{"rendered":"Really Believing in Hell  (Keith)"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>But I was reminded of the incident later when I received a<br \/>\nletter from an American woman in her forties who had been brought up Roman<br \/>\nCatholic. At the age of seven, she told<br \/>\nme, two unpleasant things happened to her. She was sexually abused by her parish priest in his car. And, around the same time, a little<br \/>\nschoolfriend of hers, who had tragically died, went to hell because she was a<br \/>\nProtestant. Or so my correspondent had<br \/>\nbeen led to believe by the then official doctrine of her parents&#8217; church. Her view as a mature adult was that, of these<br \/>\ntwo examples of Roman Catholic child abuse, the one physical and the other<br \/>\nmental, the second was by far the worst. She wrote:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Being fondled by the priest simply left the impression<br \/>\n(from the mind of a 7 year old) as &#8216;yucky&#8217; while the memory of my friend going<br \/>\nto hell was one of cold, immeasurable fear. I never lost sleep because of the priest&#8211;but I spent many a night being<br \/>\nterrified that the people I loved would go to hell. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>That&#8217;s from Richard Dawkins&#8217;s <u>The God Delusion<\/u> &#8211; from<br \/>\na short section on the trauma, especially to young children, caused by belief<br \/>\nin hell: pp. 317-21 (the above passage is from pp. 317-8). If you get your hands on the book, I<br \/>\nrecommend that short section. This<br \/>\nsection, and especially Dawkins&#8217;s comparing sexual abuse to being taught nasty<br \/>\ndoctrines of hell were the subject of some great outrage. Though there are other bases for such<br \/>\noutrage, some of it was underwritten by thoughts to the effect that it&#8217;s absurd<br \/>\nto think believing in hell could be as harmful as sexual abuse. Never having been the victim of sexual abuse<br \/>\nmyself, knowing little about what that must be like, and having nothing useful<br \/>\nto say about it, I don&#8217;t want to get into the comparative issue here. But some of the outraged seemed to be quite sure<br \/>\nthat being taught nasty doctrines of hell could not be seriously harmful at<br \/>\nall, and that I do want to dispute. <\/p>\n<p>As someone who spent many sleepless, terrified nights as a<br \/>\nchild &#8211; at just around the age Dawkins&#8217;s correspondent was at the time of her<br \/>\ntrauma &#8211; over hell, I can certainly emphasize with the judgment this woman<br \/>\nexpresses. (Protestants take no back<br \/>\nseat to Catholics when it comes to hell-terror, I believe.)<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><br \/>\nDawkins describes his interesting encounter with a promoter<br \/>\nof a terrifying account of hell as follows:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Another of my television interviewees was Pastor Keenan Roberts&#8230;. Pastor Roberts&#8217;s particular brand of<br \/>\nnuttiness takes the form of what he calls Hell Houses. A Hell House is a place where children are<br \/>\nbrought, by their parents or their Christian schools, to be scared witless over<br \/>\nwhat might happen to them after they die. Actors play out fearsome tableaux of particular &#8216;sins&#8217; like abortion and<br \/>\nhomosexuality, with a scarlet-clad devil in gloating attendance. These are a prelude to the <i>pi\u00e8ce de r\u00e9sistance<\/i>, Hell Itself,<br \/>\ncomplete with realistic sulphurous smell of burning brimstone and the agonized<br \/>\nscreams of the forever damned. <\/p>\n<p>After<br \/>\nwatching a rehearsal, in which the devil was suitably diabolical in the<br \/>\nhammed-up style of a villain of Victorian melodrama, I interviewed Pastor<br \/>\nRoberts in the presence of his cast. He<br \/>\ntold me that the optimum age for a child to visit a Hell House is twelve. <br \/>This shocked me somewhat, and I asked him<br \/>\nwhether it would worry him if a twelve-year-old child had nightmares after one<br \/>\nof his performances. He replied,<br \/>\npresumably honestly:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I would rather for them to understand that Hell is a place<br \/>\nthat they absolutely do not want to go to. I would rather reach them with that message at twelve than to not reach<br \/>\nthem with that message and have them live a life of sin and to never find the<br \/>\nLord Jesus Christ. And if they end up<br \/>\nhaving nightmares as a result of experiencing this, I think there&#8217;s a higher<br \/>\ngood that would ultimately be achieved and accomplished in their life than<br \/>\nsimply having nightmares.  (pp. 319-20) <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>(These &#8220;Hell Houses&#8221; seem to be a variation on an old<br \/>\ntheme. For some vintage (&#8220;classic&#8221;) hell-terror-mongering, follow <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=evA9t3pAAU8\">this youtube link<\/a>.)<br \/>\nWhen I was around 7, I got that message &#8211; that Hell is a<br \/>\nplace I absolutely do not want to go to &#8211; loud and clear. And it did terrorize me&#8211;And not just worries<br \/>\nthat <i>I<\/i> might end up there, but terror at the thought of <i>anyone<\/i> ending up in<br \/>\nsuch a place. The combination of eternal duration with unspeakable torment really got to me. In a later post I hope to<br \/>\ngo into the effects &#8211; some of them lasting to this day &#8211; beyond nightmares.<\/p>\n<p>But I was apparently getting the hell message too early: Pastor<br \/>\nRoberts seems to think that 12 is the best age (though I&#8217;m here just going by<br \/>\nwhat Dawkins writes). By 12, I wasn&#8217;t<br \/>\nany longer really terrorized by hell, though I still accepted a very nasty,<br \/>\ntraditional doctrine of hell &#8211; as I did all the way into my early 20s. (When I accepted the doctrine but was no<br \/>\nlonger terrorized by it, I did find it curious that I wasn&#8217;t so terrorized.)<br \/>\nWhy do some people who accept a traditional doctrine of hell<br \/>\nexperience debilitating terror of it, while others don&#8217;t? Why was I terrorized at 7, but not at<br \/>\n12? Why does debilitating terror tend to<br \/>\noccur among children (though some adults also suffer from it)?<br \/>\nThese are questions that I hope receive some serious<br \/>\ninvestigation. (And, again, if anyone<br \/>\nknows of any studies of this, please let me know.) All I can do is provide my own (non-expert) guess, which is<br \/>\nbased just on my own case and that of several other people I&#8217;ve talked to. <\/p>\n<p>My guess is that debilitating terror of hell is (at least<br \/>\noften) explained by the subject getting or having one cognitive ability before<br \/>\nor without having another (or having one of them to a much greater extent<br \/>\nbefore or without having the other to a significant enough extent): Having the<br \/>\nability to understand and appreciate the doctrine without (yet) having<br \/>\ndeveloped the ability to &#8220;quarantine&#8221; threatening &#8220;beliefs&#8221; from having the<br \/>\neffects beliefs of that content in some sense should have. (Since this &#8211; and especially my use of &#8220;quarantine&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8211; is all very vague, perhaps this shouldn&#8217;t even be thought of an explanation<br \/>\nso much as my guess as to the form that the right explanation will take.) <\/p>\n<p>As I&#8217;m tempted to describe it (and I often succumb to this<br \/>\ntemptation): When I was 7, but not when I was older, I <u><i><b>really believed<\/b><\/i><\/u> a<br \/>\ntraditional doctrine of hell.<\/p>\n<p>The notion of belief seems to be a very messy one that I don&#8217;t<br \/>\nvery well understand, but it seems to somehow involve a very complex set of<br \/>\ndispostitions: dispositions to act in certain ways under certain circumstances,<br \/>\nto have certain emotions under certain circumstances, to form certain other<br \/>\nbeliefs under certain circumstances, etc. And it&#8217;s possible to have some of the relevant dispositions without<br \/>\nhaving others. And in such cases, it may<br \/>\nhappen that neither &#8220;yes&#8221; nor &#8220;no&#8221; is a very accurate answer to the question of<br \/>\nwhether the subject believes the item in question. To use some advanced, technical terminology:<br \/>\nThey <u><i><b>kinda<\/b><\/i><\/u> believe it&#8211;and kinda don&#8217;t. By the time I was 12, though I still accepted a traditional doctrine of<br \/>\nhell, I only kinda believed it, as opposed to my earlier, terrorized self, who <u><i><b>really believed<\/b><\/i><\/u> it. The &#8220;quarantining&#8221;<br \/>\nof the doctrine wasn&#8217;t a simple matter of fully retaining the belief while<br \/>\nblocking it from having some of its corrosive effects. Rather, it seems to me, it reduced the extent<br \/>\nto which I could accurately be described as believing the doctrine. In that sense, <i>I didn&#8217;t really believe<br \/>\nit<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>That &#8211; including such a use of the likes of &#8220;really believe&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8211; is how I&#8217;ve been explaining this matter since well before Dawkins&#8217;s <i>The God<br \/>\nDelusion<\/i> came out. So the following bit<br \/>\nreally resonated with me (the italics are Dawkins&#8217;s own):<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n<br \/>&#8216;Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never<br \/>\nhurt me.&#8217; The adage is true so long as<br \/>\nyou don&#8217;t really <i>believe<\/i> the words. But if your whole upbringing, and everything you have ever been told by<br \/>\nparents, teachers and priests, has led you to believe, <b><i>really believe<\/i><\/b>,<br \/>\nutterly and completely, that sinners burn in hell&#8230;, it is entirely plausible<br \/>\nthat words can have a more long-lasting and damaging effect than deeds. 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