{"id":556,"date":"2011-03-09T09:01:06","date_gmt":"2011-03-09T09:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thinplaces\/2011\/03\/what-are-you-doing-for-lent.html"},"modified":"2011-03-09T09:01:06","modified_gmt":"2011-03-09T09:01:06","slug":"what-are-you-doing-for-lent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinplaces\/2011\/03\/what-are-you-doing-for-lent.html","title":{"rendered":"What Are you Doing for Lent?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I was a little girl, maybe eight years old. We were<br \/>\nEpiscopalians at the time, so all my friends from Sunday School had been<br \/>\ntalking about what they were giving up for Lent. Forty days of deprivation,<br \/>\nwith lots of speculation as to whether it was cheating to eat (because as a<br \/>\nkid, it was almost always food of some sort that we gave up) the desired item<br \/>\non Sundays. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">At school, I asked a friend the same question. &#8220;I&#8217;m a<br \/>\nBaptist,&#8221; she replied. &#8220;We don&#8217;t believe in Lent.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&#8220;Why?&#8221; I asked. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">She said she needed to ask her mother. The next day, she<br \/>\nreported, &#8220;We don&#8217;t believe in Lent because we remember Jesus&#8217; sacrifice for us<br \/>\nevery day of the year.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I didn&#8217;t know what to say. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Every year, when Ash Wednesday rolls around, I remember<br \/>\nthat conversation as I try to decide if and how I will observe Lent. I&#8217;m no<br \/>\nlonger an Episcopalian, so my church life is not governed by the liturgical<br \/>\ncalendar. I know that God has not commanded me to observe 40 days of Lenten<br \/>\nfasting. And yet I also know that Christians have done so throughout the<br \/>\ncenturies as a means of remembering the cross and preparing for Good Friday.<\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment-->\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;border-top-width: 0px;border-right-width: 0px;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-left-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 0px;padding-bottom: 0px;padding-left: 0px;font-size: 1em;font-weight: normal\">And so I observe Lent, as a way of joining with Christians throughout the centuries and around the globe in the weeks that lead up to our Easter celebration.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;border-top-width: 0px;border-right-width: 0px;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-left-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 0px;padding-bottom: 0px;padding-left: 0px;font-size: 1em;font-weight: normal\">Last year, I gave up alcohol. It was a good way of focusing my mind and attention upon Jesus&#8217;, a helpful tool to turn my thoughts to his sacrifice on the cross. And when I think back to my friend&#8217;s point, I realize that if I gave up alcohol (or anything else) all year long, it would cease to be connected to Jesus and just turn into one more aspect of my life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;border-top-width: 0px;border-right-width: 0px;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-left-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 0px;padding-bottom: 0px;padding-left: 0px;font-size: 1em;font-weight: normal\">This year, I&#8217;m not giving anything up. Instead, I&#8217;m planning to meditate on the cross and the meaning of the cross by reading the Gospel of Mark and Paul&#8217;s Letter to the Romans. Jesus&#8217; death has become more wondrous to me with time, but it has also become more puzzling. Perhaps the puzzle is a healthy recognition of mystery. But still, I&#8217;m planning to use the next six weeks to consider what happened that day on the outskirts of Jerusalem. I&#8217;ll be posting my thoughts and questions on a weekly basis.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-top: 0px;margin-right: 0px;margin-bottom: 0.75em;margin-left: 0px;border-top-width: 0px;border-right-width: 0px;border-bottom-width: 0px;border-left-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: initial;padding-top: 0px;padding-right: 0px;padding-bottom: 0px;padding-left: 0px;font-size: 1em;font-weight: normal\">How about you? Do you observe Lent? Are you giving something up? Taking something up? Why?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was a little girl, maybe eight years old. We were Episcopalians at the time, so all my friends from Sunday School had been talking about what they were giving up for Lent. 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