{"id":424,"date":"2010-11-11T09:08:07","date_gmt":"2010-11-11T09:08:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thinplaces\/2010\/11\/grateful-for-laughter.html"},"modified":"2010-11-11T09:08:07","modified_gmt":"2010-11-11T09:08:07","slug":"grateful-for-laughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinplaces\/2010\/11\/grateful-for-laughter.html","title":{"rendered":"Grateful for Laughter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">We were all seated at the dinner table. I had succumbed to<br \/>\nthe temptation to give everyone what they wanted rather than insist upon a common<br \/>\nmeal. So Peter and I had chicken and white bean stew. William was nibbling on quinoa<br \/>\nsalad. And Penny was in the midst of inhaling a bowl of black bean soup. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Black bean soup is one of her favorite meals, but it&#8217;s a<br \/>\nmess. And she didn&#8217;t help the messiness by pushing her chair away from the<br \/>\ntable and dripping soup all over the place as she brought the spoon to her<br \/>\nmouth. Soon enough, her bare foot was covered with specks of black beans. She<br \/>\nbrought her foot to her mouth and licked it. Really. She did. She then got a<br \/>\nstern reprimand from her father, and we moved on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">A few minutes later, the bowl of soup empty and her pile of<br \/>\nred pepper chunks untouched, I said, &#8220;Penny, I notice there is something you<br \/>\nhaven&#8217;t eaten.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">There&#8217;s a brief pause. &#8220;My foot!&#8221; she proclaims, as if she<br \/>\ndeserves great commendation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Peter and I can&#8217;t contain our laughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">And then I say, &#8220;No, something else. It&#8217;s on your plate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">She looks down, studying her toes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Peter says, &#8220;I&#8217;ll give you a hint. It&#8217;s red.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Still looking down, she says, &#8220;Newspaper!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">We&#8217;re puzzled at first. <i>Where<br \/>\ndid she come up with that? <\/i>And then we catch each other&#8217;s eye. <i>She couldn&#8217;t have meant to make a pun?<\/i> I<br \/>\nshake my head in answer to his unspoken question. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">And then Penny says, &#8220;You read a newspaper!&#8221; As if to say, &#8220;Really,<br \/>\nMom and Dad, didn&#8217;t you get that funny joke?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I learned a few things about our daughter today. She&#8217;s<br \/>\nflexible enough to put her toes in her mouth. She couldn&#8217;t care less about good<br \/>\ntable manners. And she knows how to make us laugh. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">We&#8217;ll keep working on the table manners. Meanwhile, I&#8217;m<br \/>\ngrateful for the laughter.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We were all seated at the dinner table. I had succumbed to the temptation to give everyone what they wanted rather than insist upon a common meal. So Peter and I had chicken and white bean stew. William was nibbling on quinoa salad. 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