{"id":334,"date":"2010-08-13T15:40:52","date_gmt":"2010-08-13T15:40:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thinplaces\/2010\/08\/what-im-reading-follow-up-on-anne-rice-and-gay-marriage-and-an-article-on-teenagers-in-the-church.html"},"modified":"2010-08-13T15:40:52","modified_gmt":"2010-08-13T15:40:52","slug":"what-im-reading-follow-up-on-anne-rice-and-gay-marriage-and-an-article-on-teenagers-in-the-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinplaces\/2010\/08\/what-im-reading-follow-up-on-anne-rice-and-gay-marriage-and-an-article-on-teenagers-in-the-church.html","title":{"rendered":"What I&#8217;m Reading: Follow up on Anne Rice and Gay Marriage, and an article on Teenagers in the Church"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><font size=\"4\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 16px\"><br \/>\n<!--StartFragment--><br \/>\n<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"4\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><font face=\"Times\"><br \/>\n<!--StartFragment--><br \/>\n<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font face=\"Times\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span>&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.christianitytoday.com\/women\/2010\/08\/an_open_letter_to_anne_rice.html\">An Open Letter<br \/>\nto Anne Rice<\/a>,&#8221; by Karen Spears Zacharias, should be of interest to anyone who has followed<br \/>\nAnne Rice&#8217;s public declaration that she has left Christianity. I wrote a quick<br \/>\nresponse earlier this week: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thinplaces\/2010\/08\/can-you-follow-christ-without-being-a-christian.html\">Can You Follow Christ Without Being a Christian<\/a>.&#8221;<\/span>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span>I&#8217;ve also been<br \/>\ngrateful for an interesting discussion in response to my post, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thinplaces\/2010\/08\/some-of-my-questions-about-gay-marriage.html\">Some of My<br \/>\nQuestions About Gay Marriage<\/a>,&#8221; &nbsp;written in response to Ross Douthat&#8217;s blogpost &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2010\/08\/09\/opinion\/09douthat.html?_r=1&amp;scp=1&amp;sq=ross%20douthat%20marriage%20ideal&amp;st=cse\">The Marriage Ideal<\/a>&#8221;&nbsp;and Andrew Sullivan&#8217;s response, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com\/the_daily_dish\/2010\/08\/the-unique-quality-of-lifelong-heterosexual-monogamy-1.html\">The Unique Quality of Lifelong Heterosexual<br \/>\nMonogamy<\/a>.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/span>&nbsp;I<br \/>\nalso commend to you Ellen Painter Dollar&#8217;s thoughtful response: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/thefivedollars.blogspot.com\/2010\/08\/im-probably-going-to-regret-this-but.html\">I&#8217;m Probably<br \/>\nGoing to Regret This But&#8230;<\/a>&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span>&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span>Finally on a<br \/>\ntotally separate topic, I commend Kenda Creasy Dean&#8217;s article, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.christiancentury.org\/article.lasso?id=8654\">Faith, nice and<br \/>\neasy<\/a>,&#8221; about American<br \/>\nteenagers in the church. Here&#8217;s a quotation from it to whet your appetite: <\/span><span style=\"font-size:13.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:#333333\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-bottom:0in;margin-bottom:.0001pt\"><span style=\"font-size:13.0pt;font-family:Arial;color:#0018E5\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family:Arial;color:#494544\">American young people have learned a<br \/>\nwell-intentioned but ultimately banal version of Christianity that&#8217;s been<br \/>\noffered to them in American churches. Most youth seem to accept this bland view<br \/>\nof faith as all there is&#8211;as something nice to have, like a bank account,<br \/>\nsomething you have in case you need to draw from it in the future. What Christian<br \/>\nadults have not told them is that this account of Christianity is bankrupt. We<br \/>\nhave not invested in their accounts: we &#8220;teach&#8221; young people<br \/>\nbaseball, but we &#8220;expose&#8221; them to faith. We provide coaching and<br \/>\nopportunities for youth to develop and improve their pitches and their SAT<br \/>\nscores, but we blithely assume that religious identity will happen by osmosis<br \/>\nand will emerge &#8220;when youth are ready&#8221; (a confidence we generally<br \/>\nlack when it comes to, say, algebra). The result? Teenagers who don&#8217;t have the<br \/>\nsoul strength necessary to recognize, wrestle with and resist the symbiotes in<br \/>\nour midst&#8211;probably because we lack this strength ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/>\n<\/font><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/>\n<\/font><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.christiancentury.org\/article.lasso?id=8654\" target=\"_blank&gt;Faith, nice and easy&lt;\/a&gt;\"><br \/>\n<!--EndFragment--><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;An Open Letter to Anne Rice,&#8221; by Karen Spears Zacharias, should be of interest to anyone who has followed Anne Rice&#8217;s public declaration that she has left Christianity. I wrote a quick response earlier this week: &#8220;Can You Follow Christ Without Being a Christian.&#8221;&nbsp; &nbsp; I&#8217;ve also been grateful for an interesting discussion in response&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":88,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,2,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-articles","category-faith","category-what-im-reading"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>What I&#039;m Reading: Follow up on Anne Rice and Gay Marriage, and an article on Teenagers in the Church - Thin Places<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinplaces\/2010\/08\/what-im-reading-follow-up-on-anne-rice-and-gay-marriage-and-an-article-on-teenagers-in-the-church.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"What I&#039;m Reading: Follow up on Anne Rice and Gay Marriage, and an article on Teenagers in the Church - Thin Places\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&#8220;An Open Letter to Anne Rice,&#8221; by Karen Spears Zacharias, should be of interest to anyone who has followed Anne Rice&#8217;s public declaration that she has left Christianity. 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