{"id":33,"date":"2016-08-30T21:47:00","date_gmt":"2016-08-30T21:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinkbelievemanifest\/?p=33"},"modified":"2016-08-30T21:47:00","modified_gmt":"2016-08-30T21:47:00","slug":"dealing-negative-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thinkbelievemanifest\/2016\/08\/dealing-negative-people.html","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Negative People"},"content":{"rendered":"

Negative people can really get you down. Sometimes they show up disguised as friends trying to comfort you or make you feel better.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t intend to harm you but before you know it you\u2019re in a negative conversation; complaining and whining about anything or everything. Unfortunately, all of that just creates more negative energy and you end up attracting more negative people.<\/p>\n

We all have some negative people in our lives, some are always around you and some just show up at the worst time and get you down.<\/p>\n

Negative people can really knock you down, make you feel like you’re no good and just never really encourage you.<\/p>\n

Get Rid Of Negative Energy<\/strong><\/p>\n

Some of them will even tell you that you can’t achieve your goals and how you’re just not good enough. The truth is no one knows what you\u2019re really capable of and you can do or achieve anything you want.<\/p>\n

It’s easy to say don’t believe them, but these negative people can be real pests.<\/p>\n

You want to be positive, you try to be positive, you try to create positive energy, you try to keep them away but they just barge into your life and turn your upbeat, positive mood into a really sour downer.<\/p>\n

So what do you do? How do you get rid of them?<\/p>\n

Well, some of them may be good friends, siblings, parents or a close relative, so it’s not always easy to simply shut them out and you can’t just boot them out of your life, it’s never that easy.<\/p>\n

Try as you may to keep them away, they’ll just keep wearing you down.<\/p>\n

So you have to deal with them so that they choose to stay away. And the best way to do that is to develop positive energy.<\/p>\n

If you have negative people around you it’s because you’re attracting them into your life.<\/p>\n

The only way you attract them into your life is with negative energy, which is what you have to get rid of, the sooner the better.<\/p>\n

This negative energy stems from your subconscious mind and your thoughts. Too many negative thoughts, too many negative beliefs, too many doubts and fears, too many negative words all create negative energy.<\/p>\n

To get rid of the negative energy and keep the negative people away you have to get rid of the negative thoughts, get rid of the negative beliefs, get rid of the doubts and fears, and stop saying too many negative words.<\/p>\n

As soon as you do that you’ll find those negative people will just fade away. They simply won’t want to be around you because you won’t share the same energy.<\/p>\n

Negative people only want to be around other negative people so they can feed off and share their negative energy. This just creates more negativity and makes your life more difficult.<\/p>\n

So today get rid of the negative energy which attracts negative people. Create positive energy by planting new positive thoughts and positive beliefs on your subconscious mind.<\/p>\n

Change The Conversation<\/strong><\/p>\n

The next time you’re around negative people change the conversation to something positive. For everything negative they say, respond with a positive comment about the same or about something completely different.<\/p>\n

At first you may get some resistance from them and they may even get more negative or try to attack what you’re saying. If that happens, stand your ground and continue being positive.<\/p>\n

You’ll find that after a while they’ll just walk away and leave you alone. They won’t be gone forever, but they will walk away for a while. If or when they come back, just do the same thing.<\/p>\n

Now if you really want to keep negative people away and attract positive people who will always support and encourage you then you have to change the thoughts and beliefs sitting on your subconscious mind.<\/p>\n

It’s those negative thoughts and negative beliefs on your subconscious that continue to attract negative people and negative situations.<\/p>\n

Your subconscious is connected to everything and everyone. So if you have negative people around you, if your life isn’t going the way you want, if there are too many negative things happening then you have too much negativity on your subconscious mind.<\/p>\n

You need to change what’s on your subconscious so that you have positive thoughts, positive beliefs and positive energy. Then you’ll attract positive people and positive situations.<\/p>\n

Best of all you’ll easily drive away all the negative people who keep putting you down and keep making you feel miserable.<\/p>\n

Just follow what I outlined and you’ll see those negative people fade away quickly and easily.<\/p>\n

Best of all you’ll attract positive people and positive situations into your life. Don\u2019t let the negative people bully you into being negative.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re in charge of your mind and subconscious mind. Stay positive and believe in yourself. Then watch the positive people flock to you as you spread more and more positive energy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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