{"id":5,"date":"2010-05-18T07:59:15","date_gmt":"2010-05-18T07:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/05\/the-four-fold-goddess.html"},"modified":"2010-05-18T07:59:15","modified_gmt":"2010-05-18T07:59:15","slug":"the-four-fold-goddess","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/05\/the-four-fold-goddess.html","title":{"rendered":"The Full Spirited Four-Fold Goddess"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[endif]--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> Contrary to the assumptions of many women, the Triple<br \/>\nGoddess model is not universal, nor is it really historical. In fact, the<br \/>\nso-called ancient paradigm that enjoys so much popularity today is actually not<br \/>\nquite as old as I am! <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> The age-related Triple Goddess was first articulated in so<br \/>\nmany words by Robert Graves, a classical scholar, mythographer and poet who in<br \/>\nhis 1948 study, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/White-Goddess-Historical-Grammar-Poetic\/dp\/0374504938\"><i>The<\/i><span style=\"font-style: normal\"> <\/span><\/a><i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/White-Goddess-Historical-Grammar-Poetic\/dp\/0374504938\">White<br \/>\nGoddess<\/a>,<\/i><span style=\"font-style: normal\"><\/span><i><br \/>\n<\/i><span style=\"font-style: normal\">synthesized the nine most important early<br \/>\nGreeks goddesses into three main types. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-family: Geneva\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> <\/span>&#8220;As Goddess of the Underworld,&#8221; he writes, &#8220;she was<br \/>\nconcerned with Birth, Procreation and Death. As Goddess of the Earth she was<br \/>\nconcerned with the three seasons of Spring, Summer and Winter: she animated<br \/>\ntrees and plants and ruled all living creatures. As Goddess of the Sky she was<br \/>\nthe Moon in her three phases.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> Summing up the paradigm, he concludes, &#8220;As the New Moon or<br \/>\nSpring, she was girl; as the Full Moon or Summer, she was woman; as the Old<br \/>\nMoon or Winter, she was hag.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> Robert Graves&#8217;s Triple Goddess is associated only with the<br \/>\nthree elements of earth, air, and water, the three seasons of spring, summer,<br \/>\nand winter, and just three phases of the moon &#8212; waxing, full, and dark.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> Now wait a minute! Where is autumn? The leaves don&#8217;t just<br \/>\nget crumbly and brown and fall off the trees at the end of summer. First they<br \/>\nturn brilliant colors, a fabulous display of gorgeous glory before they<br \/>\ndisappear into winter. Does that not describe midlife women, who are more<br \/>\nstunning and sturdy now than ever we were as young maidens?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> And what about the waning moon? Where is that, Mr. Graves?<br \/>\nWhile it might be tempting to think of the waning moon as getting smaller,<br \/>\nweaker, dimmer, I prefer to relate to the waning stage as reducing, refining,<br \/>\ncondensing, like fine wine or rich broth. Less water and more juice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> He also compares the Maiden with air, the Mother with Earth<br \/>\nand the Crone with water. Fire, any one? If women in our mid years are not about<br \/>\nfire, we are not about anything. Our bodies are burning up alive. Our passions<br \/>\nare rekindled. And our patience is fried. To a crisp!<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> During the past half century, Graves&#8217;s definition of three<br \/>\nage-identified aspects of a Triple Goddess has worked its way thoroughly into<br \/>\ntoday&#8217;s huge and diverse Goddess and New Age movements where it has been<br \/>\nwholeheartedly embraced. But now there is an alternative &#8212; a Four- Fold Goddess<br \/>\nwhose four periods of growth and transformation resonate deeply with<br \/>\ncontemporary women. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> Four, not the trinity, is considered the holy number in most<br \/>\nEarth-honoring cultures. In numerology, four represents the generating virtue,<br \/>\nthe source from which all combinations are possible. It has long been a number<br \/>\nof completion, stability and solidity, considered a perfect number, the root of<br \/>\nall things.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--> My new construct of the four stages of a woman&#8217;s life &#8212;<br \/>\nMaiden, Mother, Queen and Crone is a much more accurate description of the<br \/>\ncurrent Way of Womanhood. And they seem so natural, somehow. They are in<br \/>\ncomplete metaphoric alignment with the pervasive way that peoples have always<br \/>\nordered existence into Four Quarters. The four quarters of the moon, the four<br \/>\nseasons of the year, the four solstices and equinoxes, the four elements, the<br \/>\nfour cardinal directions of the Earth, the four periods of the day, the four<br \/>\nsuits of the tarot. When all four aspects are joined, the Goddess is complete:<br \/>\nphysically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. And so are we.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-indent: 0in\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]--><!--[endif]--><\/span><b><font>Four-Fold Correspondences<\/font><\/b><\/h2>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\"><b><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->&nbsp;<!--[endif]--><\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\"><b>Maiden<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Mother<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Queen<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Crone<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\">Waxing Moon<span> <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Full<br \/>\nMoon<span> <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Waning<br \/>\nMoon<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Dark<br \/>\nmoon<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\">Spring<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Summer<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Autumn<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Winter<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\">Water<span>&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Earth<span> <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Fire<span>&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; <\/span>Air<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\">East<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>South<span> <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>West<span> <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>North<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in -4.5pt 0.0001pt 4.5pt;line-height: 200%\">Dawn<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Noon<span>&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Sunset<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; <\/span>Midnight<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-right: -0.5in\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->&nbsp;<!--[endif]--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-right: -0.5in\">***<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of<br \/>\ninterest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to <a href=\"mailto:thequeenofmyself@aol.com\">thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->&nbsp;<!--[endif]--><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Contrary to the assumptions of many women, the Triple Goddess model is not universal, nor is it really historical. In fact, the so-called ancient paradigm that enjoys so much popularity today is actually not quite as old as I am! 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