{"id":2232,"date":"2017-04-17T06:00:45","date_gmt":"2017-04-17T10:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/?p=2232"},"modified":"2017-04-14T14:08:55","modified_gmt":"2017-04-14T18:08:55","slug":"change-changes-everything-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2017\/04\/change-changes-everything-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Being The Change Changes Everything"},"content":{"rendered":"

Some might argue that we don’t have any choice in this upside down dangerous world and that we can’t affect what will happen. But even if we can’t immediately alter the course of human events on the world stage, we can certainly create change in our own lives and in all of the lives that we touch. And our thoughts are the seeds of that change.<\/p>\n

Dr. Christiane Northrup writes, \u201cUse your thoughts wisely. Understand\u00a0their power. Thoughts have a tendency to become their physical equivalent. This is one of the fundamental laws of the universe. Another one is the law of attraction, which states that ‘like attracts\u00a0like.’ Because it is consciousness that creates reality, the kind of consciousness you hold \u2014 your vibration \u2014 actually creates the kind of life you’re living.\u201d<\/p>\n

So our first order of business must be to stay positive. To entertain only positive possibilities. To imagine only affirmative alternatives. To surround ourselves with wholly uplifting, life-affirming people and influences. To align ourselves solely with the greater good so that our actions will be born of only the finest of our best intentions.<\/p>\n

We need to share that positivity with everyone who we meet, actually engage on a human level with those who we encounter as we make it through our day. Not just our families, friends and colleagues \u2014 those of presumed like-minds \u2014 but also the shoe repair guy, the waitress at the coffee shop, the post office clerk, the bag girl at the super market.<\/p>\n

Because there really is<\/em> still a chance for peace and positive change \u2014 and that chance will definitely increase if we each do our piece. It is ultimately up to us, each one of us, all of us, individually and together, to create the kind of world in which we want to live \u2014 to be<\/em> the change we seek \u2014 starting right here, right now. Within the context of our immediate lives, within the concentric circles of our ordinary interactions.<\/p>\n

I once gave a presentation in Washington, D.C. about creating peace in our world and in our lives. During the question and answer period, a woman commented that she wished that she could quit her job and just devote herself to working for peace. \u201cWhat do you do?\u201d I asked her. \u201cI\u2019m a therapist,\u201d she replied. Surely she has many opportunities every day to create peace and foster transformation in her professional capacity.<\/p>\n

A good example of a Peace Queen is Dianne, one of the wonderful women who regularly attends my ritual circles. She not only prays for the homeless men and women who live on her block, but she calls them each by name. I am so impressed and inspired by her personal outreach to the \u201cuntouchables\u201d that most other people would prefer not to notice, let alone engage with. Everybody is<\/em>, after all, somebody.<\/p>\n

If we ignore, exploit or patronize those people whose lives intersect with ours, how can we expect international relations to be more civilized? We need to walk our talk wherever we go, whatever we do, remembering always, that by doing so we do<\/em> make a difference. Let us each be a sun, sending our caring energy out into the world, shedding light wherever we go. You never know whom you might touch with the radiance of your warmth.<\/p>\n

A new, spiritually based social activism is beginning to assert itself. It stems not from hating what is wrong and trying to fight it, but from loving what could be and making the commitment to bring it forth.
\n<\/strong>– Marianne Williamson<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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\nDonna Henes is the author of The Queen of My Self: Stepping into Sovereignty in Midlife<\/em>.<\/a> She offers counseling and upbeat, practical and ceremonial guidance for individual women and groups who want to enjoy the fruits of an enriching, influential, purposeful, passionate, and powerful maturity. Consult the MIDLIFE MIDWIFE\u2122<\/a><\/p>\n

The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to thqueenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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