{"id":1809,"date":"2015-06-12T06:00:34","date_gmt":"2015-06-12T10:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/?p=1809"},"modified":"2015-05-29T16:49:15","modified_gmt":"2015-05-29T20:49:15","slug":"try-saying-this","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2015\/06\/try-saying-this.html","title":{"rendered":"Try Saying This"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Try saying this silently to everyone and everything you see for thirty days:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI wish you happiness now and whatever\u00a0will bring happiness to you in the future.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If we said it to the sky, we would have to stop polluting;<br \/>\nif we said it when we see ponds and lakes and streams, we<br \/>\nwould have to stop using them as garbage dumps and sewers;<br \/>\nif we said it to small children, we would have to stop abusing<br \/>\nthem, even in the name of training; if we said it to people, we<br \/>\nwould have to stop stoking the fires of enmity around us.<br \/>\nBeauty and human warmth would take root in us like a clear,<br \/>\nhot June day. We would change.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8211; Joan Chittister<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>* ***<br \/>\nDonna Henes is the author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thequeenofmyself.com\"><em>The Queen of My Self: Stepping into Sovereignty in Midlife<\/em>.<\/a> She offers counseling and upbeat, practical and ceremonial guidance for individual women and groups who want to enjoy the fruits of an enriching, influential, purposeful, passionate, and powerful maturity. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.donnahenes.net\/queen\/consult.shtml\">Consult the MIDLIFE MIDWIFE\u2122<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. 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