{"id":1799,"date":"2015-06-03T06:00:13","date_gmt":"2015-06-03T10:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/?p=1799"},"modified":"2015-05-29T14:46:56","modified_gmt":"2015-05-29T18:46:56","slug":"dangerous-territory","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2015\/06\/dangerous-territory.html","title":{"rendered":"Dangerous Territory"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Dedicated to Our Great Work in the world,<\/em><br \/>\n<em>and The Cosmic Cowgirls<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\nWe are a tribe of truth tellers.<br \/>\nRevolution makers.<br \/>\nMovers and shakers<br \/>\nof things that need moving<br \/>\nand shaking. Like hips.<br \/>\nAnd old ideas that need<br \/>\nshaking off.<\/p>\n<p>We are a gathering of women who<br \/>\nstraddle the worlds.<br \/>\nWe have one bare foot on the earth?(toenails painted sparkly of course)<br \/>\nand one cowgirl boot in the marketplace of life.<br \/>\nWith our heads in the stars for big dreaming<br \/>\nand our arms outstretched<br \/>\nto embrace as much aliveness as we can.<br \/>\nWe have our hearts on our sleeves, both of them.<br \/>\nWhether we be sinners or saints<br \/>\nor wear halos or horns there is<br \/>\none thing you have to admit about us&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>We agree&#8230;<br \/>\nBe the most you that you can be.<br \/>\nBe your own revolution<br \/>\nwhile being a part of the collective one.<\/p>\n<p>We believe this truth to be self evident:<br \/>\nThat each woman can transform<br \/>\nher life into a legend.<br \/>\nThat stories are made for telling<br \/>\naround the campfire,<br \/>\nbut legends are meant to be lived.<br \/>\nAnd sisterhoods are meant to<br \/>\nbe your bridge when you don&#8217;t know<br \/>\nthe way over the troubled water of<br \/>\nthe lies you have been told<br \/>\nand tell yourself still.<\/p>\n<p>To help in the great adventure<br \/>\nof revealing the more you that there is,<br \/>\nwe may hand you a paintbrush<br \/>\na writing pen a drum a fiddle<br \/>\na magic wand a bar of chocolate<br \/>\nsome cowgirl boots and<br \/>\na jar of red glitter and a ball of<br \/>\nred thread. And the craft of<br \/>\ninquiry. That&#8217;s right &#8211; the path<br \/>\nof questions is that path<br \/>\neach of us must walk and keep<br \/>\non walking. Creativity, curiosity<br \/>\nand? inquiry into oneself is the daily<br \/>\ncup of tea here.<\/p>\n<p>Here we know what women<br \/>\nare worth and we tell you what we<br \/>\nknow of our ancient and future wisdom.<br \/>\nWe have been gathering the stories<br \/>\nof our grandmothers and grandfathers<br \/>\nabout birth and death and transformation<br \/>\nthat have been lost. We will not<br \/>\nallow them to be lost again. We<br \/>\nare carrying scrolls of wisdom<br \/>\nacross the planet so that thousands<br \/>\nof hands hold these legends<br \/>\nand it will not be lost from us<br \/>\nlike it was before.<\/p>\n<p>This is where women<br \/>\ncome to gather the bones<br \/>\nand sing their whole self<br \/>\nback together again.<\/p>\n<p>We believe there is medicine,<br \/>\nsacred and true in<br \/>\ncommunity that comes with the<br \/>\nterritory of belonging.<br \/>\nOf being a part of that which<br \/>\nis bigger then you. And me.<br \/>\nA place where the collective<br \/>\nsoul can unfurl her bright<br \/>\nwings and together we can<br \/>\nfly in a future that reflects<br \/>\nwho we are and what we<br \/>\ncare about.<\/p>\n<p>And in closing I must give you a<br \/>\nWarning &#8211; if you enter<br \/>\nCosmic Cowgirl Territory<br \/>\nthere is no way your wild<br \/>\nwoman will keep herself<br \/>\ncontained. Beware of shifting<br \/>\nstories and old ideas falling away.<br \/>\nBeware of taking up space<br \/>\nthat might make others<br \/>\nuncomfortable around you.<br \/>\nBeware of no longer being<br \/>\nwilling to live a life that does not reflect<br \/>\nwho you are. This is dangerous<br \/>\nterritory. Welcome.<br \/>\nYour cup of revolutionary tea<br \/>\nis waiting for you.<\/p>\n<p><em><br \/>\nShiloh Sophia McCloud, CA<\/em><\/p>\n<p>* ***<br \/>\nDonna Henes is the author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thequeenofmyself.com\"><em>The Queen of My Self: Stepping into Sovereignty in Midlife<\/em>.<\/a> She offers counseling and upbeat, practical and ceremonial guidance for individual women and groups who want to enjoy the fruits of an enriching, influential, purposeful, passionate, and powerful maturity. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.donnahenes.net\/queen\/consult.shtml\">Consult the MIDLIFE MIDWIFE\u2122<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to <a href=\"mailto:thequeenofmyself@aol.com\">thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dedicated to Our Great Work in the world, and The Cosmic Cowgirls We are a tribe of truth tellers. Revolution makers. 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