{"id":1632,"date":"2015-01-12T06:00:07","date_gmt":"2015-01-12T11:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/?p=1632"},"modified":"2014-12-29T09:19:30","modified_gmt":"2014-12-29T14:19:30","slug":"living-full-living-true-the-authentic-life-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2015\/01\/living-full-living-true-the-authentic-life-part-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Living Full–Living True: The Authentic Life (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

By Suzanne Zoglio, Ph.D<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Continued from Friday, January 9th…<\/em><\/p>\n

Once you are clear about what resonates for you and you align your outer behavior with that inner truth, your life will flow in a direction that is exquisitely meaningful. You will not expend energy on denial, survival, or suppression. Instead, you will gain energy from insight, evolution, and expression\u2026from being authentic. When your inner and outer worlds are congruent, the pieces all seem to fit\u2026everything clicks. If you know at your core that you are living a life that is aligned with your purpose, filled with what you love, and supporting your growth, you are living an authentic life. Your outer behavior is fueled by your inner truth, and you lead a life of dignity and self-respect. There is no pretense to keep up. What you do reflects what you believe, how you feel, and what you know.<\/p>\n

When you live authentically, you know what you stand for and make conscious choices to honor those values. Your highest priorities consistently get the lion’s share of your time, and your actions are consistent with your beliefs. If you say fitness, family, meditation, and service are important to you, you make time for them in your life. When you are complimented, you feel personally validated because it is the “real” you that is being appreciated, not a “persona” that you play very well. The energy that fuels an extraordinary life is harnessed from within your heart. On the other hand, if you live in a way that just doesn\u2019t feel right, you might be concealing or ignoring parts of yourself that long to be acknowledged.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you feel tired, empty, or depressed because you are draining energy as you push your inner desires to the rear of your awareness. Denying inner truth is like trying to keep the lid on a pressure cooker that has built up too much steam. Try as you will, you can\u2019t contain it. If you know in your heart that you\u2019re not using your most precious gifts or pursuing your dreams, you will not feel passion for the path that you are on. A certain numbness may even take hold, where you go through the motions and even perform pretty well, but at the end of the day you do not feel full. Rather it feels as though something is missing\u2026and it is\u2026a special part of you. To live authentically is to make a difference with the gifts we\u2019ve been given and to follow the dreams that ignite our passion.<\/p>\n

Being authentic also requires the courage to face personal truth. That truth might be how you really feel about yourself, what fears are blocking your success, which habits are perpetuating the life you have, or what dreams you have suppressed. Until you choose your actions based on emotional awareness, you will not experience harmony. You may dance as fast as you can, distracting yourself from the inner work that needs to be done, but frenzied activity will not fill that void you perceive. To increase inner peace we must find the courage to examine and embrace all aspects of ourselves\u2026the light, the dark, the new, the old.<\/p>\n

To see if enhancing authenticity in your life might add to your joy, see if the following statements ring true for you.<\/p>\n