{"id":1557,"date":"2014-11-12T06:00:13","date_gmt":"2014-11-12T11:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/?p=1557"},"modified":"2014-10-23T15:39:32","modified_gmt":"2014-10-23T19:39:32","slug":"a-message-of-peace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2014\/11\/a-message-of-peace.html","title":{"rendered":"A Message of Peace"},"content":{"rendered":"

I have an outgoing message on my answering machine that doesn\u2019t even say, \u201cHello.\u201d It just starts right in with, \u201cYou know there really is <\/em>still a chance for peace and that chance will definitely increase if we each do our piece. So let\u2019s make peace \u2014 in our homes, in our own hearts, in our relationships, in our communities, in all of our dealings and in the world. Peace be with us all.\u201d<\/p>\n

Much to my surprise, the very people whom I never would have thought would respond favorably have. The overwhelmingly positive reactions that I have received from workmen, telephone solicitors and service personnel has been an important lesson about the necessity to reach out beyond the boundaries of our biases, assumptions and expectations.<\/p>\n

A few weeks ago, I came home to a message from the plumber who was making an appointment to fix my sink. After listening to my taped pep talk, he answered in his gravely Brooklyn brogue, \u201cYeah, what is this war all about, anyway? Why are we fighting those people? They never hurt us.\u201d This, from someone I would have assumed to be a proponent of the war.<\/p>\n

The electrician, another guy who really shocked me, loves the message and calls in daily just to hear it! Once I was here when he called and when I picked up, he complained. \u201cLet me call back again,\u201d he implored. \u201cI want to hear the message. It makes me feel good.\u201d The reason, he explained, is that it is not political. It is personal. And it touches his heart.<\/p>\n

But why was I surprised? People are just people, after all. When you think about it, all people are of a like-mind when it comes to living a life unthreatened by hatred and violence. The urgency for war only seems enticing when it is waged elsewhere. Ask anyone. “Do you want bombs and missiles to blow up your house?”<\/p>\n

Every parent has the right to put her\/his child to sleep each night without any risk of that child being shot, trapped in the midst of some hostile crossfire \u2014 be it in Iraq, Afghanistan, Ireland, The Congo, Palestine, or the South Bronx. No one wants to live and work in a war zone.
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\nDonna Henes is the author of The Queen of My Self: Stepping into Sovereignty in Midlife<\/em>.<\/a> She offers counseling and upbeat, practical and ceremonial guidance for individual women and groups who want to enjoy the fruits of an enriching, influential, purposeful, passionate, and powerful maturity. Consult the MIDLIFE MIDWIFE\u2122<\/a><\/p>\n

The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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