{"id":13,"date":"2010-05-31T08:35:54","date_gmt":"2010-05-31T08:35:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/05\/rest-in-peace-live-in-peace.html"},"modified":"2010-05-31T08:35:54","modified_gmt":"2010-05-31T08:35:54","slug":"rest-in-peace-live-in-peace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/05\/rest-in-peace-live-in-peace.html","title":{"rendered":"Rest in Peace * Live in  Peace"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I would like to share an alternate vision of Memorial Day by three Queen Poets.<\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>Those Holy Moments<br \/>By <a href=\"http:\/\/www.iblist.com\/author8863.htm\">Karen Ethelsdatter<\/a>&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Those holy moments before sleep<br \/>when the mind lets go<br \/>&amp; the hands &amp; the teeth &amp; the jaws unclench<br \/>&amp; the body settles into the arms of the bed<br \/>&amp; in winter comes the welcome weight of blanket, of cover.<\/p>\n<p>Those holy moments we call peace, may they cover the land,<br \/>may they overtake the warrior<br \/>May they show us how to cease fighting<br \/>among ourselves.<br \/>May they unname the enemy,<br \/>may they rename her\/him<br \/>neighbor, friend.<\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>Pray for Peace<br \/>By <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellenbass.com\/bio.php\">Ellen Bass<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Pray to whomever you kneel down to:<br \/>Jesus nailed to his wooden or marble or plastic cross, <br \/>his suffering face bent to kiss you,<br \/>Buddha still under the Bo tree in scorching heat,<br \/>Adonai, Allah. Raise your arms to Mary <br \/>that she may lay her palm on our brows,<br \/>to Shekinhah, Queen of Heaven and Earth, <br \/>to Inanna in her stripped descent.<\/p>\n<p>Pray to the bus driver who takes you to work,<br \/>pray on the bus, pray for everyone riding that bus<br \/>and for everyone riding buses all over the world.<br \/>If you haven&#8217;t been on a bus in a long time,<br \/>climb the few steps, drop some silver, and pray.<\/p>\n<p>Waiting in line for the movies, for the ATM,<br \/>for your latte and croissant, offer your plea.<br \/>Make your eating and drinking a supplication.<br \/>Make your slicing of carrots a holy act,<br \/>each translucent layer of the onion, a deeper prayer.<\/p>\n<p>Hawk or Wolf, or the Great Whale, pray<br \/>Bow down to terriers and shepherds and Siamese cats.<br \/>Fields of artichokes and elegant strawberries.<\/p>\n<p>Make the brushing of your hair a prayer, every strand <br \/>its own voice, singing in the choir on your head.<br \/>As you wash your face, the water slipping<br \/>through your fingers, a prayer: Water,<br \/>softest thing on earth, gentleness<br \/>that wears away rock.<\/p>\n<p>Making love, of course, is already a prayer.<br \/>Skin and open mouths worshipping that skin,<br \/>the fragile case we are poured into,<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re hungry, pray. If you&#8217;re tired.<br \/>Pray to Gandhi and Dorothy Day.<br \/>Shakespeare. Sappho. Sojourner Truth.<\/p>\n<p>When you walk to your car, to the mailbox,<br \/>to the video store, let each step<br \/>be a prayer that we all keep our legs,<br \/>that we do not blow off anyone else&#8217;s legs.<br \/>Or crush their skulls.<br \/>And if you are riding on a bicycle<br \/>or a skateboard, in a wheel chair, each revolution<br \/>of the wheels a prayer that as the earth revolves<br \/>we will do less harm, less harm, less harm.<\/p>\n<p>And as you work, typing with a new manicure,<br \/>a tiny palm tree painted on one pearlescent nail<br \/>or delivering soda or drawing good blood<br \/>into rubber-capped vials, writing on a blackboard<br \/>with yellow chalk, twirling pizzas &#8212;<\/p>\n<p>With each breath in, take in the faith of those<br \/>who have believed when belief seemed foolish,<br \/>who persevered. With each breath out, cherish.<\/p>\n<p>Pull weeds for peace, turn over in your sleep for peace,<br \/>feed the birds for peace, each shiny seed<br \/>that spills onto the earth, another second of peace.<br \/>Wash your dishes, call your mother, drink wine.<\/p>\n<p>Shovel leaves or snow or trash from your sidewalk.<br \/>Make a path. Fold a photo of a dead child<br \/>around your VISA card. Gnaw your crust.<br \/>Mumble along like a crazy person, stumbling<br \/>your prayer through the streets.<\/p>\n<p>From <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ellenbass.com\/the_human_line.php\">The Human Line<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>Wage Peace <br \/>By <a href=\"http:\/\/www.simplechoicefarmartistretreat.com\/index.php?lengua=eng&amp;pagina=main&amp;subseccion=1231961136\">Judyth Hill<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Wage peace with your breath.<\/p>\n<p>Breathe in firemen and rubble, breathe out whole buildings and flocks of red wing blackbirds.<\/p>\n<p>Breathe in terrorists and breathe out sleeping children and freshly mown fields.<\/p>\n<p>Breathe in confusion and breathe out maple trees.<\/p>\n<p>Breathe in the fallen and breathe out lifelong friendships intact.<\/p>\n<p>Wage peace with your listening: hearing sirens, pray loud.<\/p>\n<p>Remember your tools: flower seeds, clothes pins, clean rivers.<\/p>\n<p>Make soup.<\/p>\n<p>Play music, learn the word for thank you in three languages.<\/p>\n<p>Learn to knit, and make a hat.<\/p>\n<p>Think of chaos as dancing raspberries, imagine grief as the out breath of beauty <br \/>or the gesture of fish.<\/p>\n<p>Swim for the other side.<\/p>\n<p>Wage peace.<\/p>\n<p>Never has the world seemed so fresh and precious:<\/p>\n<p>Have a cup of tea and rejoice.<\/p>\n<p>Act as if armistice has already arrived.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t wait another minute.<\/p>\n<p>Celebrate today.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-right: -0.5in\">***<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font>The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of<br \/>\ninterest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to <a href=\"mailto:thequeenofmyself@aol.com\">thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin-right: -0.5in\"><!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->&nbsp;<!--[endif]--><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I would like to share an alternate vision of Memorial Day by three Queen Poets. ***Those Holy MomentsBy Karen Ethelsdatter&nbsp; Those holy moments before sleepwhen the mind lets go&amp; the hands &amp; the teeth &amp; the jaws unclench&amp; the body settles into the arms of the bed&amp; in winter comes the welcome weight of blanket,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":218,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-inspiration","category-spirituality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Rest in Peace * Live in Peace - The Queen of My Self<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/05\/rest-in-peace-live-in-peace.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Rest in Peace * Live in Peace - The Queen of My Self\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I would like to share an alternate vision of Memorial Day by three Queen Poets. ***Those Holy MomentsBy Karen Ethelsdatter&nbsp; 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