{"id":112,"date":"2010-10-18T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-10-18T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/10\/protest-is-good-for-you-1.html"},"modified":"2010-10-18T10:00:00","modified_gmt":"2010-10-18T10:00:00","slug":"protest-is-good-for-you-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/10\/protest-is-good-for-you-1.html","title":{"rendered":"Protest is Good for You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The media likes to portray peace, environment and human and animal rights protesters as a fringe element of whining malcontents teetering on the margins of proper society. The truth is that those who step forward to speak their minds are happier and healthier folks than most.<\/p>\n<p>Protesting is not complaining nor is it sending out negative messages. <i>Pro<\/i> means &#8220;for,&#8221; &#8220;in favor of.&#8221; <i>Test<\/i> means, &#8220;to speak,&#8221; as in testify and testimony. So, protest actually means, &#8220;to speak for.&#8221; Protest is a completely positive endeavor.<\/p>\n<p>Albert Einstein wrote &#8220;The world is dangerous not because of those who do harm, but because of those who look at it without doing anything&#8230;Nothing that I can do will change the structure of the universe. But maybe by raising my voice I can help the greatest of all causes &#8212; goodwill among men and peace on earth.&#8221; <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/>A new study by John Drury, professor of social psychology at the University of Sussex in England, shows that it is good for you to protest. Even though protesters may be depressed about the state of the world, their physical and mental ailments improve dramatically as a result of taking part in a group effort for change and the betterment of conditions.<\/p>\n<p><b>I won&#8217;t be made useless<br \/>I won&#8217;t be idle with despair <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Jewel<\/b><br \/>From &#8220;Hands&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Involvement in social causes and participation in political demonstrations banishes sensations of isolation, discouragement and impotence and replaces them with an exhilarating awareness of connectedness, well being and empowerment. <\/p>\n<p>When people participate in large-scale protests they get swept up in a communal mood of optimism that feeds their feelings of hope. They believe that their actions can help to change the course of history. &#8220;Collective action can therefore be a life-changing, uplifting and life-enhancing experience,&#8221; says Drury.<\/p>\n<p>The French have a fabulous saying that when a woman loses her blood, she gains her voice. Just think! 60 million midlife Queens with voices loud and clear and determined, <i>pro<\/i>-testing for sanity, compassion, peace and well-being for all people as well as for our planet home.<\/p>\n<p>Let us stand strong in our sovereignty and speak up! <br \/>&nbsp;<br \/><b>We have been socialized to respect fear more than our own needs for language and definition, and while we wait in silence for that final luxury of fearlessness, the weight of that silence will choke us. The transformation of silence into language and action is an act of self-revelation and that always seems fraught with danger. We fear the very visibility without which we also cannot truly live-and that visibility which makes us most vulnerable is that which is also the source of our greatest strength.<br \/>-Audre Lorde<\/b><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to <a href=\"mailto:thequeenofmyself@aol.com\">thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The media likes to portray peace, environment and human and animal rights protesters as a fringe element of whining malcontents teetering on the margins of proper society. The truth is that those who step forward to speak their minds are happier and healthier folks than most. 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