{"id":104,"date":"2010-10-06T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-10-06T10:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/10\/say-something-1.html"},"modified":"2010-10-06T10:00:00","modified_gmt":"2010-10-06T10:00:00","slug":"say-something-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thequeenofmyself\/2010\/10\/say-something-1.html","title":{"rendered":"Say Something"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It is so damn easy to feel depressed, frustrated and disillusioned right now. These are terrible times of artificial division, manipulated resentment and palpable fear. The real dynamic being played out right now is not about warring religious, economic or nationalistic factions. Not even about war. The struggle is actually between those who believe that the world is defined in terms of opposition &#8212; war or peace, right or wrong, rich or poor, with us or against us &#8212; and those who are able to see things in a more holistic, congruent manner.&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In these deciding times, it is imperative for those of us who see the big picture to decide, to commit, to make a concerted effort to reach out in ever-expanding circles of affinity and embrace. Now is the time to create healthy, functioning networks in recognition and in honor of our mutual state of being and our common fate. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Because there really is still a chance for peace &#8212; and that chance will definitely increase if we each do our piece. It is ultimately up to us, each one of us, all of us, individually and together, to create the kind of world in which we want to live &#8212; to be the change we seek &#8212; starting right here, right now. Within the context of our immediate lives, within the concentric circles of our ordinary interactions. <\/p>\n<p><b>If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Mother Teresa<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I once gave a presentation in Washington, D.C. about creating peace in our world and in our lives. During the question and answer period, a woman commented that she wished that she could drop her job and just devote herself to working for peace. &#8220;What do you do?&#8221; I asked her. &#8220;I&#8217;m a therapist,&#8221; she replied. Surely she has many opportunities every day to create peace in her professional capacity.<\/p>\n<p>Some might argue that we don&#8217;t have any choice in this upside down dangerous world and that we can&#8217;t affect what will happen. But even if we can&#8217;t immediately alter the course of human events on the world stage, we can certainly create change in our own lives and in all of the lives that we touch. And our thoughts are the seeds of that change.<\/p>\n<p><b>Use your thoughts wisely. Understand their power. Thoughts have a tendency to become their physical equivalent. This is one of the fundamental laws of the universe. Another one is the law of attraction, which states that &#8216;like attracts like.&#8217; Because it is consciousness that creates reality, the kind of consciousness you hold &#8212; your vibration &#8212; actually creates the kind of life you&#8217;re living.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Dr. Christiane Northrup<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>So our first order of business as reining Queens must be to stay positive. To entertain only positive possibilities. To imagine only affirmative alternatives. To surround ourselves with wholly uplifting, life-affirming people and influences. To align ourselves solely with the greater good so that our actions will be born of only the finest of our best intentions.<\/p>\n<p><i>Part Two tomorrow<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>The Queen welcomes questions concerning all issues of interest to women in their mature years. Send your inquiries to <a href=\"mailto:thequeenofmyself@aol.com\">thequeenofmyself@aol.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is so damn easy to feel depressed, frustrated and disillusioned right now. These are terrible times of artificial division, manipulated resentment and palpable fear. The real dynamic being played out right now is not about warring religious, economic or nationalistic factions. Not even about war. 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