1.0The Queen of My Selfhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/thequeenofmyselfDonna Heneshttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/thequeenofmyself/author/dhenesStep Up & Take Charge - The Queen of My Selfrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="I3NUmBfdKZ"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/thequeenofmyself/2013/04/step-up-take-charge.html">Step Up & Take Charge</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/thequeenofmyself/2013/04/step-up-take-charge.html/embed#?secret=I3NUmBfdKZ" width="600" height="338" title="“Step Up & Take Charge” — The Queen of My Self" data-secret="I3NUmBfdKZ" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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You take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame. – Erica Jong The story of our lives is ours to create. We can design our own roles and ideals, compose the scripts, and author the sagas of our own futures and that of the environment around…