{"id":132,"date":"2019-04-10T11:01:42","date_gmt":"2019-04-10T11:01:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thepowerofpositivedoing\/?p=132"},"modified":"2019-04-10T12:11:25","modified_gmt":"2019-04-10T12:11:25","slug":"finding-your-purpose-through-prayer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thepowerofpositivedoing\/2019\/04\/finding-your-purpose-through-prayer.html","title":{"rendered":"Finding Your Purpose Through Prayer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Like many companies over the past ten years, the company that I worked for in Los Angeles was downsizing \u2013 offering generous buy-out packages as an incentive for employees to leave the company.\u00a0 What a great deal!\u00a0 I had been unhappy in my job for quite some time, and this looked like the perfect way out.\u00a0 My severance package would provide a financial cushion for me to start a business of my own.\u00a0 I was nervous about leaving the security of a big corporation (especially since I was a single mom, over 40) while the country was in the midst of a recession. To say that I was concerned would be an understatement.<\/p>\n

I had been told that one should have enough money to live on for two years when you start a new business, and I only had enough to last nine months.\u00a0 But still, it was a start.<\/p>\n

I set up my home office in the basement, and ordered inexpensive business cards and stationary from Kinko’s.\u00a0 I bought a fax machine and a computer.\u00a0 I made up a list of several business ideas \u2013 the kinds of things I thought I might like to do.<\/p>\n

As the weeks rolled by, I spent my time doing research on my list of business ideas.\u00a0 I conducted interviews with entrepreneurs and asked them questions about their businesses.\u00a0 I read books and trade journals.\u00a0 I read the Wall Street Journal<\/em> and magazines for entrepreneurs. I pursued each of my ideas with thoroughness and dogged determination.\u00a0 One by one, I explored each of the ideas on my list.\u00a0 And one by one, I crossed them off the list. They just weren’t right for me.<\/p>\n

As the weeks turned into months, my list of business ideas got shorter and shorter, and I grew more and more discouraged.\u00a0 It seemed each idea led me down a blind alley to a dead end.\u00a0 I was running out of ideas \u2013 my fear and dread grew stronger.\u00a0 What was I going to do?<\/p>\n

Finally the day came when I had exhausted my list of ideas.\u00a0 None had worked out, nine months had gone by, and I was now out of money … and terrified.<\/p>\n

I woke up one morning, sat on the edge of my bed, bowed my head and began to pray:<\/p>\n

\u201cWell, God, you had better tell me what to do because I am absolutely clueless<\/em>. I don’t have the first idea of how to start a business, or even what business to go into.\u00a0 So, God, I’m putting you in charge of my career and my business \u2013 from now on, you’re the boss<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

I got up. got dressed, and went about my chores and errands.<\/p>\n

As I went through my day, a simple question made its way softly into my awareness.\u00a0 \u201cWhat are your gifts?\u201d<\/em> the gentle voice asked.<\/p>\n

Stopping my activity to engage in conversation with this quiet voice, I thought for a minute, then replied, \u201cMy gifts are teaching and writing.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen do that,\u201d<\/em> the gentle voice replied. It was as simple as that.\u00a0 The conversation was over.\u00a0 A quiet peacefulness settled over me.<\/p>\n

Early the next morning, the phone rang, and a woman on the other end asked me if I would be interested in designing a new employee orientation program for her company.\u00a0 This woman had known me when I was the training manager at my previous employer.\u00a0\u00a0 We had a short conversation, made an appointment to meet and discuss details, and then hung up the phone.<\/p>\n

I got on my knees and began to pray \u2013 this time a prayer of thanks.\u00a0 I knew I had a new employer. My mission was clear:\u00a0 I would teach and write, serving others through seminars and books.<\/p>\n

Since that day almost 25 years ago, I have conducted workshops and seminars for dozens of organizations and delivered hundreds of keynote speeches to professional conferences and women’s groups. In these 20 years, I’ve written and published over two dozen inspirational books, as well as hundreds of articles and blogs. God gave me my marching orders that day, and I simply followed them. I found my purpose in prayer.<\/p>\n

Mother Teresa used to say: \u201cI am a pencil in the hand of God.\u201d I don\u2019t think she would mind if I borrowed that, so I say: \u201cI am a laptop in the hands of God.\u201d<\/p>\n

What can I tell you about finding your own purpose, your own mission in life?<\/strong> Here are a few suggestions I would offer you in your search for a life purpose that brings you happiness:<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Spend some time thinking about the story of your life.<\/strong> If you were going to write a children\u2019s book about your life, how would the story go? What\u2019s the theme of your life? Who are the characters in your story? Any villains? Any fairy godmothers? What adventures would you include? Any surprises in your tale? What elements add dramatic tension? What can others learn from you? How can you help others through sharing your story?<\/p>\n

2. Make sure you have some quiet time in your daily life.<\/strong> I have found that my God whispers rather than shouts, so I have to keep my daily life quiet enough so that I can hear Divine Guidance when it\u2019s coming my way. If you\u2019re too busy, too active, or working too hard to \u201cfigure things out,\u201d you might miss important spiritual intuition, messages, and guidance.<\/p>\n

3. Consider tapping into spiritual resources \u2013 books, CDs, videos, lectures, retreats, workshops, and more.<\/strong> We are blessed to live in a world with an abundant array of spiritual resources to aid us in our quest for a meaningful, happy life. You can find spiritual teachers from many ancient religious traditions, as well as contemporary gurus, shamans, spiritual directors, and others who are happy to share their wisdom and insight. Pay attention to your own intuitive sense of what attracts you. Check out spiritual resources that pique your interest, stir your heart, make you feel happy about your life\u2019s journey.<\/p>\n

4. Pay attention to your own energy and enthusiasm when you meet someone who is doing something that interests or intrigues you.<\/strong> When you find yourself thinking, \u201cOh that looks great \u2013 I\u2019d like to do that too, I think,\u201d make a mental note to yourself. Take a mental \u201csnapshot\u201d of that person doing what it is that excites you, and pin that \u201csnapshot\u201d up on the bulletin board of your mind. Our minds think in pictures, not words, so if you can SEE a model of what you think your purpose might be, take a picture of it with your mind and keep it handy in your memory.<\/p>\n

5. Try experiments.<\/strong> You don\u2019t have to have one life purpose for your whole life. Your life purpose may change and evolve over time \u2013 heck, it might even change dramatically! Allow yourself the freedom to try things out \u2013 investigate possibilities that interest you. Spend time with people who are doing what you think you might to do \u2013 maybe ask if you can study with them, or be their apprentice for a short period of time. Sometimes it\u2019s helpful to \u201ctry things on\u201d to see how they feel when you\u2019re actually doing what it is that attracts you. Give yourself permission to discover first-hand what your life purpose is. Let experience be your teacher.<\/p>\n

\"BJ's<\/a>
BJ’s new book, “Your Life is Your Prayer,” will be published April 15, 2019.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

BJ Gallagher is an inspirational author, speaker, storyteller and poet. She has had many jobs and played many roles over the years: student, corporate wife, single mother, waitress, clerk, research assistant, secretary, congressional intern, golf shop sales girl, continuing education specialist, middle manager, career coach, author, filmmaker, instructional designer, trainer, workplace consultant, among others. Every one of these roles enriched her life and set the stage for what came next. In God\u2019s economy, nothing is wasted.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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