{"id":1230,"date":"2010-12-01T19:33:05","date_gmt":"2010-12-01T19:33:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/theirbadmother\/2010\/12\/blog-the-change-you-wish-to-see-in-the-world.html"},"modified":"2010-12-01T19:33:05","modified_gmt":"2010-12-01T19:33:05","slug":"blog-the-change-you-wish-to-see-in-the-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/theirbadmother\/2010\/12\/blog-the-change-you-wish-to-see-in-the-world.html","title":{"rendered":"Blog The Change You Wish To See In The World"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>I wrote this post a few months back, when I was in Africa. It&#8217;s worth reposting today, on World Aids Day, because I think that the reminder is an important one: that those of who have a voice &#8211; whether those voices are carried virtually, or otherwise &#8211; have a responsibility to use our voices for those who don&#8217;t. And the mothers and the children and the families that I met in Africa don&#8217;t have voices. I lend them mine.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m writing this post from a hotel room in Maseru, Lesotho. Lesotho,<br \/>\nin case you didn&#8217;t know, is deep in the southern-most part of Africa,<br \/>\nland-locked by South Africa. It is, you might think, an unlikely place<br \/>\nfor a blogger to be. After all, what do bloggers have to do with aid in<br \/>\nAfrica? But you&#8217;d be wrong. A blogger can have a lot to do with aid in<br \/>\nAfrica, or any other kind of social good. I&#8217;m here for some very good<br \/>\nsocial media reasons.\n<\/p>\n<div style=\"float: right;margin-left: 5px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/view.picapp.com\/pictures.photo\/news\/france-first-lady-carla\/image\/8850867?term=born+HIV+free\" class=\"external-link\"><br \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I&#8217;m here because I&#8217;m visiting <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/09\/on-a-wing-and-a-something\/\" class=\"external-link\">some on-the-ground projects that are funded by Born HIV Free, a program of the Global Fund<\/a>, and I&#8217;m visiting these projects because <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?_frag=\/en\/spread&amp;url=http:\/\/www.bornhivfree.org\/f\/#\/en\/spread\" class=\"external-link\">Born HIV Free and the Global Fund want to raise awareness<\/a>,<br \/>\nand who better to raise awareness than bloggers? Who better than<br \/>\nbloggers to take the real stories of what such projects look like, of<br \/>\nwhat they mean to real people, and not just the posters and soundbites<br \/>\nand late-night infomercials with Sally Struthers, and become part of<br \/>\nthose stories and tell them in real voices? Who better than<br \/>\nstorytellers, personal storytellers, coming at the story with their<br \/>\nhearts and telling and showing their communities what it all looks like<br \/>\nand sounds like and feels like?\n<\/p>\n<p>Social media &#8212; this is an awkward and ugly term, of course, but one<br \/>\nthat describes that mass of us, bloggers and publishers and twitterers<br \/>\nand Flickrers and others, and what we do &#8212; can make a difference in<br \/>\ncases such as this, such as the one that I am in right now, because<br \/>\nsocial media is conversation, it&#8217;s discourse. It&#8217;s all of us, talking,<br \/>\ntelling stories and sharing stories and keeping stories going because<br \/>\nwe&#8217;re invested in the stories that we tell and that we hear because <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/08\/we-are-the-world\/\" class=\"external-link\">we are a narrative community<\/a>, and for any issue or problem that might be helped by getting its story told, we are the people to do it. So it was for me <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/08\/we-are-the-world\/\" class=\"external-link\">with Tutus For Tanner<\/a>, so it has been for Heather Spohr and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/friendsofmaddie.org\/\" class=\"external-link\">her work on behalf of Maddie<\/a>, so it was for so many BlogHers <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/women-haiti\/women-haiti\">after the earthquake in Haiti<\/a>, so it is for too many bloggers to count here. We&#8217;re making a difference by telling these stories.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/09\/on-a-wing-and-a-something\/\" class=\"external-link\">So it is that I am here, in Lesotho<\/a>,<br \/>\nmeeting mothers who are HIV positive but who have, with the help of<br \/>\nPMTCT (Preventing Mother To Child Transmission) treatment and support,<br \/>\nchildren who are HIV-free, and meeting women who are pregnant and<br \/>\nundergoing such treatment and meeting children who have lost their<br \/>\nparents to HIV\/AIDS and also meeting children, some children, who are<br \/>\nnot HIV-free. And I&#8217;m talking to you about here, now, and I&#8217;ve been<br \/>\ntalking about it on my blog and right <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/when-born-free-means-so-much-more-movies-about-lions-how-you-can-help-save-babies-lives\">here<\/a><br \/>\nat BlogHer and I will keep talking about it, I will keep telling<br \/>\nstories, because there are so, so many stories here to tell. There are<br \/>\nall the personal stories to tell, of course &#8212; such as those about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/09\/hope-carries-a-binky\/\" class=\"external-link\">these children and their mothers<\/a> &#8212; and my story in relation to these (because we always bring these narratives back to <em>us<\/em>, don&#8217;t we? I have complicated feelings abut this, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/09\/we-dont-need-another-hero-and-certainly-not-one-that-cries-all-the-time\/\" class=\"external-link\">which is another story altogether<\/a>),<br \/>\nbut there are also the bigger stories, such as how maternal health care<br \/>\nreally works in countries such as Lesotho (especially in the furthest,<br \/>\nmost rural reaches of these countries), and about how breastfeeding<br \/>\ndebates really are different under these sorts of circumstances, ditto<br \/>\ndebates about depression and mental illness and anxiety and maternal<br \/>\nshame and maternal fear and all those things. I&#8217;ll tell these stories,<br \/>\nand hope that they make a little bit of difference, if only by getting<br \/>\nother people to talk about them, and think about them, and maybe,<br \/>\nmaybe, do something if they get the chance.<\/p>\n<p>This Thursday, tomorrow, is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/mashable.com\/2010\/09\/13\/join-in-celebrating-social-good-day-social-media-for-socialgood\/\" class=\"external-link\">Social Media For Social Good Day<\/a>,<br \/>\nand it aims to celebrate exactly that &#8212; our power to make a difference<br \/>\nthrough the collective power of this new medium. It&#8217;s hosted by<br \/>\nMashable and (RED), and what they have in mind is this:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>We&#8217;re interested in unleashing fresh thinking about how<br \/>\nsocial media can raise awareness and create solutions for social issues<br \/>\naround the world. It starts with each community coming together and<br \/>\ncontributing ideas and, more importantly, solutions. Whatever community<br \/>\nyou&#8217;ll be participating in we want to know, <strong>&#8220;What&#8217;s your solution?&#8221;<\/strong> Let the world hear your ideas through social media!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>You can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/mashable.com\/2010\/09\/13\/join-in-celebrating-social-good-day-social-media-for-socialgood\/\" class=\"external-link\">find out more about participating in this at Mashable<\/a>.<br \/>\nBut you can also celebrate social media for social good in your own<br \/>\nway, simply by reflecting on the kind of change, or the cause, or the<br \/>\nhope that matters to you, and writing about it or tweeting about it or<br \/>\nuploading photos that capture it, or whatever expression of social<br \/>\nmedia speaks to you.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be celebrating by writing more about what I&#8217;m doing here in<br \/>\nAfrica, and how and why social media matters to this work. But my cause<br \/>\nis not necessarily your cause, and although I&#8217;d love it if you spread <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/category\/bornhivfree\/\" class=\"external-link\">my Lesotho\/BornHIVFree story<\/a> (and please, feel free to do so if it speaks to you) (or, you know, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/frame.php?url=http:\/\/herbadmother.com\/2010\/09\/hope-carries-a-binky\/\" class=\"external-link\">if these children speak to you<\/a>)<br \/>\n(look, nobody said we had to play fair on the Internet), I&#8217;m more<br \/>\ninterested in seeing you get inspired by the idea of using this medium<br \/>\nfor social good and acting on that inspiration in your own way. Write<br \/>\nor photograph or vlog whatever change it is that you&#8217;d like to see in<br \/>\nthe world, and leave the link here so that we can all share it. Because<br \/>\nthat&#8217;s what this is all about. Sharing, and inspiring through sharing,<br \/>\nand making change through inspiring.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s go be inspiring.<\/p>\n<p><i>(Originally posted at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blogher.com\/because-if-not-you-who-if-not-now-when-if-not-internet-where\">BlogHer.com<\/a>)<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wrote this post a few months back, when I was in Africa. 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