{"id":600,"date":"2011-09-05T11:19:30","date_gmt":"2011-09-05T15:19:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thecelebritytherapist\/?p=600"},"modified":"2011-09-05T12:25:00","modified_gmt":"2011-09-05T16:25:00","slug":"texting-addiction-r-u-jokg","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thecelebritytherapist\/2011\/09\/texting-addiction-r-u-jokg.html","title":{"rendered":"Texting Addiction: R U JOKG?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/thecelebritytherapist\/files\/2011\/09\/texting.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-603\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/243\/2011\/09\/texting-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Texting has become a way of life for most people from adults<br \/>\nthrough to the young teens that own a cell phone.\u00a0 It is a simple and effective<br \/>\nway to share information in very short, concise messages that saves the need<br \/>\nfor those sometimes time consuming personal phone calls. The idea behind<br \/>\ntexting is wonderful, but there may be a darker side to this communication<br \/>\nmethod for adults and teens alike. Texting can become an addiction, with some<br \/>\npeople reporting that they feel anxious, depressed or isolated if they are not<br \/>\nable to send or receive texts on a regular basis.\u00a0 This became quite obvious yesterday while watching my 13 year old neice text away with her girlfriend right there next to her.\u00a0 No, they weren&#8217;t texting to each other (at least I don&#8217;t think so), but they were not communicating with one another either; instead they were communicating with their other friends through texting.\u00a0 In my day, that would of meant having a friend over, only to ignore her, by being on the phone with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>It is estimated that the average teen sends just under 3400<br \/>\ntexts per month. This equates roughly to 100 or so texts a day or about 10<br \/>\ntexts an hour for the time that kids are actually awake. Take out class time,<br \/>\neating and other non-text compatible activities and you are probably looking at<br \/>\ncloser to 20 texts per hour or one text every 3 minutes. \u00a0Adults tend to text at lower amounts, but<br \/>\nstill into the thousands of texts per month when it reaches the level of<br \/>\naddiction.<\/p>\n<p>Not surprisingly there is science behind the increasing<br \/>\nnumber of people that are finding that text messaging has become an addiction.<br \/>\nResearchers studying the effects of texting have found that receiving messages actually<br \/>\nchanges the level of dopamine, which is a naturally occurring mood enhancing chemical<br \/>\nin the brain. This is the same chemical that linked to developing other types<br \/>\nof addictions, including drug addictions. The brain craves the feelings of<br \/>\npleasure that the flood of dopamine produces so each text is like a bit of<br \/>\ninstant gratification with both physiological and psychological reinforcement.<\/p>\n<p>All texting is not addictive. However, when texting becomes<br \/>\nthe major focus for a person; they are stressed when they cannot text, or they<br \/>\nchoose texting over personal interactions there is a problem. Addressing this<br \/>\nbehavior as an addiction instead of as a bad habit gives the significance to<br \/>\nthe addiction that it deserves. Treating a texting addiction is not as simple<br \/>\nas just trying to cut down, it requires addiction recovery, behavior changes<br \/>\nand a healthy alternative to produce those feel good chemicals in the brain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Texting has become a way of life for most people from adults through to the young teens that own a cell phone.\u00a0 It is a simple and effective way to share information in very short, concise messages that saves the need for those sometimes time consuming personal phone calls. 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