{"id":17,"date":"2010-07-15T07:00:39","date_gmt":"2010-07-15T07:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/movingbeyondaddiction\/2010\/07\/mel-gibson-the-dangers-of-alcohol-abuse-and-domestic-violence.html"},"modified":"2010-07-15T07:00:39","modified_gmt":"2010-07-15T07:00:39","slug":"mel-gibson-the-dangers-of-alcohol-abuse-and-domestic-violence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thecelebritytherapist\/2010\/07\/mel-gibson-the-dangers-of-alcohol-abuse-and-domestic-violence.html","title":{"rendered":"Mel Gibson:  The Dangers of Alcohol Abuse and Domestic Violence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span>I couldn&#8217;t decide what approach to take on my blog about the recent Mel Gibson news and his recent recordings of verbal and implied physical abuse against his girlfriend Oksana Grigoriea.&nbsp; Do I discuss the link between domestic violence and alcohol abuse? Do I blog about his despicable rage against the gay community, or when he was observed by a police officer saying profanities about Jews, or his insults of racial slurs to Oksana in a taping of a phone conversation to her?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I decided to shed some light on the fact that two thirds of victims of partner violence report alcohol is involved in the incident.&nbsp; Mel Gibson&#8217;s history certainly points to issues with alcoholism<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I would be curious to know whether or not he was in a drunken rage when these recordings were made, however, clearly there are signs and symptoms of mental illness or possibly organic brain damage possibly from years of heavy drinking.&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>All this is speculation, but as you can see, Mel is an un-treated alcoholic whether he is sober or not.&nbsp; This is someone who lacks emotional sobriety.&nbsp; He professes to be a religious man, although, his behavior speaks otherwise.&nbsp; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Although his publicists state he is in therapy and going to 12 step meetings, he obviously has no program.&nbsp; He is un-deniably full of EGO.&nbsp; As we say in the program, he is certainly &#8220;Edging Got Out&#8221; as the acronym goes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>There is nothing spiritual or religious about the way Mel Gibson lives his life.&nbsp; Another quality we learn in recovery is humility.&nbsp; Need, I say more&#8230;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Sherry Gaba, LCSW, is a Psychotherapist and Life Coach specializing in all addictions and recovery.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>She is the author of &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/sherrygaba.hcibooks.com\/\">Law of Sobriety<\/a>: Attracting Positive Energy for a Powerful Recovery&#8221; and Life Coach and Psychotherapist on Celebrity Rehab on VH1. <span>&nbsp;<\/span>Sherry has developed a seven step program of recovery for living a purposeful life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Calibri\" color=\"#000000\" size=\"3\">&nbsp;<\/font><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I couldn&#8217;t decide what approach to take on my blog about the recent Mel Gibson news and his recent recordings of verbal and implied physical abuse against his girlfriend Oksana Grigoriea.&nbsp; Do I discuss the link between domestic violence and alcohol abuse? 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