{"id":105,"date":"2010-12-27T07:08:49","date_gmt":"2010-12-27T07:08:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/movingbeyondaddiction\/2010\/12\/a-recoverying-addicts-position-on-gary-busey-and-daniel-baldwins-recovery.html"},"modified":"2010-12-27T07:08:49","modified_gmt":"2010-12-27T07:08:49","slug":"a-recoverying-addicts-position-on-gary-busey-and-daniel-baldwins-recovery","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/thecelebritytherapist\/2010\/12\/a-recoverying-addicts-position-on-gary-busey-and-daniel-baldwins-recovery.html","title":{"rendered":"A Recoverying Addict&#8217;s Position on Celebrity Rehab&#8217;s Gary Busey and Daniel Baldwin&#8217;s Recovery?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if !mso]&gt;--><br \/>\nA Recovery Coaching client of mine shared with me a definite opinion about Daniel Baldwin and Gary Busey from Celebrity Rehab &#8220;over &#8211; intellectualizing&#8221; their disease of addiction. She asked that I share this.&nbsp; What do you think?<\/p>\n<p>Celebrity Rehab 1 has<br \/>\nDaniel Baldwin in the first couple of episodes. I must admit, I was thrilled<br \/>\nwhen he decided to leave the center. Not because I wanted him to go out and<br \/>\nuse, but because I simply couldn&#8217;t take him talking and sucking up airtime<br \/>\nanymore. His ego about the knowledge he possessed over the disease of addiction<br \/>\nand sobriety and recovery was enough to make me gag. In my opinion, he was a<br \/>\nclear case of over-intellectualizing the disease of addiction. He is not alone,<br \/>\nGary Busey in Season 2 suffered from the same problem. Both Daniel and Gary<br \/>\nattended rehab to &#8220;help&#8221; the other people that had decided to give sobriety a<br \/>\nshot. Um, really? Because when I entered rehab years ago, I could barely help<br \/>\nmyself, let alone embrace 12<sup>th<\/sup> step work.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Is thinking getting in the way of your recovery? You can<br \/>\nover think your disease by thinking about your disease in a clinical sense, a<br \/>\nbiological sense and a psychological sense Learning about your disease is not a<br \/>\nbad thing, but thinking that you can out think your disease and &#8220;beat it&#8221; with<br \/>\nclinical understanding of the disease and the recovery program is just as<br \/>\ndangerous as not surrendering to your disease in the first place. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">When an addict has enough solid clean time and has been<br \/>\nworking the steps it is suggested that they help another addict by sponsoring<br \/>\nanother addict. According to Bill W, the founder of AA, the only way to stay<br \/>\nsober is to interact and help another addict, this is the 12<sup>th<\/sup> step<br \/>\nof the program. Unfortunately, some individuals believe that they are ready to<br \/>\ndo this far to early in recovery. Baldwin only had 9 months clean when he<br \/>\nre-entered rehab with the thought of using his fame to help other addicts. To<br \/>\nsome, this would be to early to begin to 12<sup>th<\/sup> step work. When an<br \/>\naddict helps another addict, they have embraced the cycle of step work and they<br \/>\nhave surrendered fully to their disease. Baldwin doesn&#8217;t appear to have done<br \/>\nthis. He talks about his disease in a way that separates his disease from<br \/>\nhimself personally. This is extremely dangerous. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Baldwin has strong claims of understanding the disease of<br \/>\naddiction without acknowledging his surrender to his disease of addiction. He<br \/>\ntalks in circles about the threats in the center to his sobriety and his<br \/>\nfeeling of discomfort show that he hasn&#8217;t dealt with his own centered and<br \/>\nselfish ways. It&#8217;s all him all the time, the Daniel Baldwin show, and I found<br \/>\nit exhausting. I, as an addict in recovery, did not see him as an example of<br \/>\nsobriety that I wanted to follow. In the program, addicts are told to find<br \/>\nsomeone who has what they have and do what they do. In my opinion, Baldwin had<br \/>\na lot of work to do, mainly getting out of his own way. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I don&#8217;t begrudge Daniel Baldwin or Gary Busey, and I wish<br \/>\nthem nothing other than peace of sobriety and recovery, and I am grateful that<br \/>\nthey were prime examples of the ego of an addict. This is another example of<br \/>\nhow Celebrity Rehab really shows all of the real aspects of the disease and the<br \/>\npersonality flaws of the addicts. <\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Sherry Gaba, LCSW, is a Licensed Psychotherapist and Life and Recovery Coach.&nbsp; She practices in Agoura Hills, Westlake Village, Thousand Oaks, Malibu, Calabasas, and Simi Valley.&nbsp; She also life and recovery coaches all over the world.&nbsp; She is the author of &#8220;The Law of Sobriety:Attracting Positive Energy for a Powerful Recovery&#8221; and Recovery\/Life Coach and Psychotherapist on Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew on VH1.&nbsp; Contact Sherry at sherry@sgabatherapy.com to learn more about her recover\/life coaching, psychotherapist, conferences, workshops, speaking engagements, teleseminars, and webinars.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Recovery Coaching client of mine shared with me a definite opinion about Daniel Baldwin and Gary Busey from Celebrity Rehab &#8220;over &#8211; intellectualizing&#8221; their disease of addiction. 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