{"id":114,"date":"2008-12-30T06:45:10","date_gmt":"2008-12-30T06:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/textmessages\/2008\/12\/your-new-years-resolutions-pro.html"},"modified":"2008-12-30T06:45:10","modified_gmt":"2008-12-30T06:45:10","slug":"your-new-years-resolutions-pro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/textmessages\/2008\/12\/your-new-years-resolutions-pro.html","title":{"rendered":"Your New Year&#8217;s Resolutions Problem, and Mine"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Surprise&#8211;it&#8217;s that we won&#8217;t keep them. Past performance suggests that at best, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.swamppolitics.com\/news\/politics\/blog\/2008\/12\/new_years_resolutions_uh_never.html\">we&#8217;ll maintain our resolve for a little while at best, and call it success<\/a>. I failed mine last year&#8211;I can&#8217;t even find the list I <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-style: italic\">know <\/span>I posted to my closet door. I remember that it included taking my wife to Italy (check), paying off a certain debt (nope), running a personal best in the Bolder Boulder (didn&#8217;t even enter), and finishing my PhD (not even close; in fact, I had to start my dissertation over).\u00a0<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>For years, I loved New Year&#8217;s Resolutions and was quite good at keeping them. I&#8217;ve read certain books (e.g., <span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-style: italic\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Brothers-Karamazov-Bantam-Classics\/dp\/0553212168\">The Brothers Karamazov<\/a><\/span>), done certain prayer disciplines, ran mountain trails, and become a regular flosser and a better budgeter because of New Years Resolutions. So, I&#8217;m forgiving my 2008 mishap and getting back to my resolution-keeping better self.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>What are you resolving to do, or do differently, in 2009? How do you plan to keep the resolution? (Writing it down isn&#8217;t good enough. If you don&#8217;t have a plan for each item, you&#8217;re already done.)\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>One way I plan to keep mine is by letting you hold me accountable. Feel free to bug me about these in weeks to come. I won&#8217;t share all mine, but here are my Safe for Public Consumption Resolutions:\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-weight: bold\">1. I won&#8217;t check email in the morning. <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.juliemorgenstern.com\/Products_Books_Email.php\">Julie Morgestern&#8217;s advice<\/a> is essential for anyone who really cares about productivity, peace, and any sort of creative, spiritual, or intellectual work.\u00a0I have an 8 a.m.-ish meeting each day whose exact start time is announced by email, but I&#8217;m usually up well before then for PhD-purposes. This year, those purposes, along with other writing, won&#8217;t be thwarted by my email addiction.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-weight: bold\">2. I&#8217;ll run 2-3 times\/week, mostly on trails. <\/span>I&#8217;m a better man when I run, especially when I force myself to drive the mile or so to a woodsy trail, where I can run with some crunch underfoot. I think more clearly, I&#8217;m nicer, I feel more hopeful, I write more, I&#8217;m more productive before and after, and so on. I got out of the habit this year, but I&#8217;ve been back at it the last couple weeks and my legs, my heart, and my head are all happier.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-weight: bold\">3. I&#8217;ll finish the PhD.<\/span>\u00a0Yes I will. Seriously. I will, too. Shut up.\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>And you?\u00a0<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Surprise&#8211;it&#8217;s that we won&#8217;t keep them. Past performance suggests that at best, we&#8217;ll maintain our resolve for a little while at best, and call it success. I failed mine last year&#8211;I can&#8217;t even find the list I know I posted to my closet door. 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