{"id":4367,"date":"2023-08-07T17:09:27","date_gmt":"2023-08-07T17:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/strongermarriages\/?p=4367"},"modified":"2023-08-17T15:41:13","modified_gmt":"2023-08-17T15:41:13","slug":"study-shows-unmarried-parents-more-likely-to-break-up-than-married-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/strongermarriages\/2023\/08\/study-shows-unmarried-parents-more-likely-to-break-up-than-married-parents.html","title":{"rendered":"Study Shows Unmarried Parents More Likely to Break up Than Married Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_4376\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4376\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4376\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/413\/2023\/08\/Child-of-Divorce_credit-Shutterstock-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4376\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Shutterstock.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">A new UK study on family breakdowns is highlighting the importance of marriage in keeping families together. The study, entitled \u201c<\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/marriagefoundation.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/MF-research-note-Source-of-family-breakdown.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Sources of Family Breakdown in the UK<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">,\u201d was conducted by Harry Benson of the Marriage Foundation. The study followed 4,476 parents of firstborn children born from 2000 to 2002 during the first 14 years of the children\u2019s lives. Surveys were conducted to discover which couples were still together after those 14 years. Without factoring in any variables, the study found that couples who never married were nearly three times more likely to split up than those who were married before their first child was born- 60 percent split vs. 21 percent, respectively. Even when parents married after the child was born, they were still far less likely to have split up by the time the child had reached 14, with 32 percent having split up by that age.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">When certain variables were taken into account, such as ethnicity, age, amount of time lived together, etc., unmarried parents were still significantly more likely to be split up than their pre-birth and post-birth married counterparts- 46 percent vs. 26 percent vs 27 percent, respectively. The study found that by age 14, 46 percent of children were not living with both natural parents. That total of 46 percent comes from 14 percent of children from married mothers, 13 percent from cohabiting mothers, and 19 percent from single mothers. On the reverse side, of the 54 percent of children who were living with both natural parents at 14, 45 percent of married mothers contributed to that number, while never-married mothers contributed only 8 percent. That means that 84 percent of all parents that are still together when their firstborn turns 14 are married.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">In a <\/span><a class=\"editor-rtfLink\" href=\"https:\/\/marriagefoundation.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/MF-press-release-Source-of-Family-Breakdown.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">statement<\/span><\/a><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\"> on the study, Benson stated the data shows that marriage clearly matters. \u201cThis detailed study, which followed thousands of families in the Millennium Cohort Study, yet\u00a0<\/span><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">again shows the simple truth that marriage matters,\u201d he said. \u201cThere are many reasons why this is the case, but at its simplest level, this is because the act of marriage involves a clear mutual decision about your future together. It sends a big signal that puts both people on the same page and removes any lingering doubts and ambiguities.\u201d The study showed that divorce accounted for less than a third of family breakdowns, dispelling the myth that it is the source of why so many families fall apart. The data, rather, seems to imply the lack of commitment to marriage throughout the child\u2019s life is much more likely to cause a family breakdown. The study also noted the long-term positives for children whose parents are married. \u201cTheir teenage sons are less likely to experience mental health problems, their teenage girls are more likely to achieve both maths and English GCSE, and their adult children are more likely to go to university and less likely ever to need benefits,\u201d it noted.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span data-preserver-spaces=\"true\">Sir Paul Coleridge, founder of The Marriage Foundation, affirmed the importance of parents marrying. \u201cEvery experienced parent knows that if adolescents are to successfully navigate the scary teenage years, they need a secure and stable family environment. This new research is full of striking stats, but for me, two stand out. Firstly, by age 14, nearly half the nation\u2019s children are not living with both their natural parents, which in itself is very concerning. However, of those who are still together, the vast majority (84 percent) have married parents. A paltry 16 percent of intact couples get to this crucial period unmarried.\u201d He went on to add, \u201cThe moral of the story is that if you want to experience the rich rewards of fully enjoying your children through their tricky teenage years, marrying the other parent is a crucial first.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A new UK study on family breakdowns is highlighting the importance of marriage in keeping families together. The study, entitled \u201cSources of Family Breakdown in the UK,\u201d was conducted by Harry Benson of the Marriage Foundation. 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