{"id":1998,"date":"2023-01-03T14:47:15","date_gmt":"2023-01-03T14:47:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/strongermarriages\/?p=1998"},"modified":"2023-05-26T18:32:01","modified_gmt":"2023-05-26T18:32:01","slug":"dolly-parton-shares-the-secret-of-success-to-her-56-year-marriage-it-was-meant-to-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/strongermarriages\/2023\/01\/dolly-parton-shares-the-secret-of-success-to-her-56-year-marriage-it-was-meant-to-be.html","title":{"rendered":"Dolly Parton Shares the Secret of Success to Her 56-Year Marriage: &#8220;It Was Meant to Be&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_3753\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3753\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3753\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/413\/2023\/01\/strongermarriages_dolly-parton-husband-dean_credit-@dollyparton-instagram-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"576\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3753\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">@dollyparton \/ Instagram<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Dolly Parton\u00a0is sharing the key to a successful marriage.\u00a0The\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/entertainment\/genres\/country\">country music icon<\/a>\u00a0got candid about her 56-year marriage to husband and Nashville, Tennessee, businessman Carl Thomas Dean.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI like it when people say, \u2018How did it last so long?\u2019 I say, \u2018I stay going,\u2019\u201d Parton said during an interview with ET Canada. \u201cYou know, there\u2019s a lot to be said about that. So, we\u2019re not in each other\u2019s face all the time. He\u2019s not in the business, so we have different interests, but yet we have the things we love to do together. So it was meant to be, I think. He was the one I was supposed to have and vice versa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The sweet couple has been married since 1966. Parton first met Dean when she was 18 and he was 21. Like any relationship, they had a few highs and lows. However, the singer-songwriter revealed a good laugh keeps the spark alive. \u201cWe both have a warped sense of humor. And I think humor, honestly, is one of the best things when you\u2019re married like that. Even if you have a problem, if you have a great sense of humor, if you say something you can\u2019t take back [you] usually have some crazy way of getting out of it,\u201d Parton noted, according to the media outlet.<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cJolene\u201d songstress admitted the pair rarely get into fights and try to keep the peace.\u00a0\u201cWe\u2019ve never had, you know, serious arguments to say bad things to each other we have to take back,\u201d she explained.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" style=\"background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CWs-_f1lvi1\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\">\n<div style=\"padding: 16px;\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 19% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"padding-top: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;\">View this post on Instagram<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"padding: 12.5% 0;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;\">\n<div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: 8px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-left: auto;\">\n<div style=\"width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\">\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;\"><a style=\"color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CWs-_f1lvi1\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by Dolly Parton (@dollyparton)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>Parton added that her husband has always supported her\u00a0legendary career\u00a0and teased that she prepared a special gift for him on her upcoming project.\u00a0\u201cHe loves all of the songs. And I haven\u2019t told him yet who I\u2019m going to have on. I don\u2019t even know myself who all is going to be on it. But he\u2019ll love it. I\u2019m doing so many of his favorite songs on the album, so I\u2019ll play it to him when it\u2019s all done.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The iconic singer\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/INHV3lvyBfM\">shared during an appearance on \u201cThe Kelly Clarkson Show\u201d\u00a0<\/a>that she recorded a top-secret song seven years ago and buried it in a time capsule to be opened in 2045. \u201cYou have no idea how that has bothered me,\u201d Parton said. \u201cI wanna go dig that up so bad. It\u2019s a really good song!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The tune was written and recorded for the 2015 opening of her Dollywood DreamMore resort. The plan is to keep the song in the time capsule until the 30th anniversary of the resort, at which time Parton will be (fingers crossed) 99 years old.<\/p>\n<p>She joked that she didn\u2019t \u201cknow whose idea that was.\u201d Parton said, \u201cThey weren\u2019t expecting me to be there at all, and I probably won\u2019t be. I might be there; who knows? I figure it\u2019ll probably disintegrate, and nobody will ever hear it; that\u2019s what bothers me &#8211; if it rots in there before they open it.\u201d Let\u2019s hope that Dolly Parton and her husband have many more years of happiness and love!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dolly Parton\u00a0is sharing the key to a successful marriage.\u00a0The\u00a0country music icon\u00a0got candid about her 56-year marriage to husband and Nashville, Tennessee, businessman Carl Thomas Dean. \u201cI like it when people say, \u2018How did it last so long?\u2019 I say, \u2018I stay going,\u2019\u201d Parton said during an interview with ET Canada. \u201cYou know, there\u2019s a 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