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Ryan Gosling is known for bringing depth and intensity to his roles, but these days, it\u2019s his role as a father that is shaping him the most \u2014 both on and off the screen.<\/p>\n

While promoting his upcoming sci-fi film Project Hail Mary<\/em>, Gosling opened up about how fatherhood has completely reframed the way he thinks about sacrifice. And for him, it\u2019s no longer complicated.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026Once you have kids, it\u2019s like, [sacrifices] are easy. It\u2019s an easy call to make,\u201d Gosling told PEOPLE. \u201cYou know, I think it\u2019s different for this character because he doesn\u2019t have that. And, yeah, so\u2026it\u2019s much more of an existential crisis for him too, and he doesn\u2019t believe in himself very much anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n

That contrast is at the heart of Project Hail Mary<\/em>, where Gosling plays Ryland Grace, a science teacher who wakes up alone on a spaceship with no memory of how he got there. As his memory slowly returns, he realizes he\u2019s been sent on a critical mission to save Earth from a mysterious threat to the sun. It\u2019s a story filled with high-stakes decisions, uncertainty, and ultimately, sacrifice.<\/p>\n

But unlike Gosling, his character doesn\u2019t have the grounding force of family to guide him.<\/p>\n

Gosling said that lack of connection makes the character\u2019s journey even more difficult. \u201cI think that\u2019s also what\u2019s so relatable about his journey is that he just doesn\u2019t [believe in himself],\u201d he explained. \u201cHe has to learn to, you know, believe in himself, and, you know, he\u2019s put into this situation that forces him to find what\u2019s in there that he didn\u2019t know was there.\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a theme that resonates beyond the screen \u2014 the idea that people often don\u2019t realize their own strength until they\u2019re pushed into challenging circumstances.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd I think we all have that in us,\u201d Gosling added. \u201cJust what are the circumstances that will bring it out?\u201d<\/p>\n

For Gosling, those circumstances came in the form of fatherhood. The actor shares two daughters, Esmeralda Amada, 11, and Amada Lee, 9, with longtime partner Eva Mendes. Since becoming a dad, he says his priorities have shifted in a major way \u2014 including the types of roles he chooses.<\/p>\n

Rather than chasing every opportunity, Gosling is now more intentional, weighing how projects will impact his time with his family and whether the content is something he\u2019d feel comfortable sharing with his kids.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think we look for films that we can bring our family to so that we can go to the theater to see [it] and kind of recreate some of those experiences that I had as a kid,\u201d he told Movieguide\u00ae.<\/p>\n

That desire to create meaningful, shared experiences speaks to something many parents can relate to \u2014 wanting to pass down moments of joy, wonder, and connection to the next generation.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also one of the reasons Project Hail Mary<\/em> stood out to him.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd I also felt like the optimism in this film was something that I wanted to share with my kids,\u201d Gosling said, \u201cthe sense that maybe the future isn\u2019t something to be feared, but just to be figured out.\u201d<\/p>\n

In a world that often feels uncertain, that message carries weight. And for Gosling, it\u2019s one that starts at home \u2014 where love, responsibility, and sacrifice come into clearer focus than ever before.<\/p>\n

Through both his work and his words, Gosling\u2019s perspective offers a simple but powerful reminder: when love leads the way, even the hardest sacrifices can feel like an easy choice.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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