{"id":822,"date":"2009-04-23T08:52:54","date_gmt":"2009-04-23T08:52:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/stevenwaldman\/2009\/04\/when-you-can-lose-your-child-f.html"},"modified":"2009-04-23T08:52:54","modified_gmt":"2009-04-23T08:52:54","slug":"when-you-can-lose-your-child-f","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/stevenwaldman\/2009\/04\/when-you-can-lose-your-child-f.html","title":{"rendered":"When You Can Lose Your Child for Having a False ID"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/stevenwaldman\/imgs\/carlos%20bail.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"carlos bail.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/128\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/04\/carlos bail-thumb-190x189-4501.jpg\" width=\"190\" height=\"189\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/a><\/span>Immigrants who are arrested for being here illegally sometimes lose their children as a result. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/04\/23\/us\/23children.html?pagewanted=2&amp;_r=1&amp;ref=us&amp;adxnnlx=1240491643-CgkkOoGdKY4hSvEoN\/HPbw\">The New York Times profiles<\/a> the case of Encarnaci\u00f3n Bail Romero who was arrested as part of a raid of a poultry processing plant in Butterfield, Missouri.<br \/>\nBecause she had false identification, she was sentenced to prison.<br \/>\nAnd because she was in prison, she was deemed an unfit parent for her infant child &#8212; guilty of &#8220;abandonment.&#8221;<br \/>\nAt the time of the raid, the child, Carlos,  was six months old. He went to live with aunts, but they soon decided they couldn&#8217;t care for him.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The aide visited her in jail to say that an American couple was interested in adopting her son. The couple had land and a beautiful house, Ms. Bail recalled being told, and had become very fond of Carlos.<br \/>\n&#8220;My parents were poor, and they never gave me to anyone,&#8221; Ms. Bail recalled. &#8220;I was not going to give my son to anyone either.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There are disputes over whether Bail tried hard enough, or had proper representation (she had a public defender for a while but he was pulled from the case after he pleaded guilty to domestic violence charges, though he was no doubt an outstanding attorney).<br \/>\nA lawyer for adopting couple argues that Bail has had plenty of chance to get her child back. &#8220;We afforded her more due process than most people get who speak English,&#8221;  Joseph L.Hensley said. (Anyone want to unpack that sentence for me?)<br \/>\nThe first priority in a situation like this should be the child.  It would have been infinitely better for him if the woman and child had both been deported.  In effect, we&#8217;ve created a situation where the punishment for working at a poultry plant illegally, and having a false ID, is losing your child.  That&#8217;s cruel to the mother, and, more important, to the child.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Immigrants who are arrested for being here illegally sometimes lose their children as a result. The New York Times profiles the case of Encarnaci\u00f3n Bail Romero who was arrested as part of a raid of a poultry processing plant in Butterfield, Missouri. Because she had false identification, she was sentenced to prison. 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