{"id":1539,"date":"2012-07-15T18:17:34","date_gmt":"2012-07-15T22:17:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/smalltownamerica\/?p=1539"},"modified":"2012-07-11T18:18:21","modified_gmt":"2012-07-11T22:18:21","slug":"the-lady-next-door","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/smalltownamerica\/2012\/07\/the-lady-next-door.html","title":{"rendered":"The Lady Next Door"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We have a neighbor lady who is really quite interesting.\u00a0 She has worked every job from sales to nursing.\u00a0 She has terrible mood swings, so I never know which way to approach her.\u00a0 She is very nice and a good friend, but can also be a challenge.\u00a0 One day she acts like an old lady and they next she is sporting the latest teen fashion.\u00a0 She is lots of fun to be around and can always tell a good story about her childhood or life&#8217;s accomplishments.<\/p>\n<p>One day she will be working in the flowerbeds on her hands and knees and the next day she is walking with a cane.\u00a0 A very complicated individual to say the least.\u00a0 Besides all this, she has a very interesting name, Hyacinth.\u00a0 I have heard of several girls names that are flowers, but never Hyacinth.\u00a0 Even her name is unusual.<\/p>\n<p>When she goes in for the night, she carefully locks all the doors and windows because she is afraid that someone might break in her house.\u00a0 We live in a really safe neighborhood, so I often leave my windows open at night.\u00a0 Hyacinth is very worrisome and scares easily.\u00a0 When the neighbors dog barks or she hears police sirens, she panics.\u00a0 I am so glad that I do not share in her fear.\u00a0 Most of the things we worry about and are afraid of, never happen.<\/p>\n<p>We waste a lot of time and energy being concerned over things we have no control of.\u00a0 Worrying about a tree falling on your car, will not decrease the chances of that happening.\u00a0 Wondering when we will start coughing after we have been near children with the flu, will not change anything.\u00a0 Locking all the windows and doors will not keep someone out who really wants to get in.\u00a0 I am so thankful that God has not given me a spirit of fear.<\/p>\n<p>Psalm 27:1 tells us, &#8220;The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? 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