{"id":93,"date":"2015-06-15T20:41:21","date_gmt":"2015-06-15T20:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/simplyfabulous\/?p=93"},"modified":"2015-06-15T20:41:21","modified_gmt":"2015-06-15T20:41:22","slug":"this-too-shall-pass","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/simplyfabulous\/2015\/06\/this-too-shall-pass.html","title":{"rendered":"This Too Shall Pass&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When you&#8217;re in the middle of a storm&#8230; whether it&#8217;s an illness, a bad relationship or financial hardship&#8230; it can sometimes feel like you will never get out of it. \u00a0The darkness can seem so all-consuming that you wonder if you&#8217;ll ever see the light again. \u00a0It&#8217;s a trick that our brain plays on us as we become so used to the sadness, the anxiety and the fear. \u00a0It becomes our new &#8220;normal&#8221; and we forget there ever was another way to live.<\/p>\n<p>The good news is that&#8217;s not the truth. \u00a0You WILL get out of the storm and you WILL see light again on the other side.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, God promises great blessings to those that stay faithful and persevere through the hard times&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those that love him.&#8221; \u00a0-James 1:12<\/em><\/p>\n<p>When I was in the middle of a very difficult period in my life, I was barely getting through the day. \u00a0I went through all the motions each day but emotionally, I was totally spent. \u00a0I felt like a zombie walking through my daily life. \u00a0Surviving more than actually living. \u00a0It seemed like things would never be different and I would never see an end to the storms that were surrounding me.<\/p>\n<p>Fast forward to a couple years later&#8230; when I was out running errands on a regular day and stopped at a traffic light in the neighborhood I had lived in during the storm. \u00a0Suddenly, I realized I was singing along to the radio. \u00a0This was not a strange occurrence. \u00a0I love music and sing all the time &#8211; in the car, in the shower, whenever the mood strikes me.<\/p>\n<p>BUT for quite awhile during that difficult period of my life, I hadn&#8217;t sung in the car.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t that I made a conscious decision not to. \u00a0I just had lost the joy to do so. \u00a0And I hadn&#8217;t even realized it.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, here I was&#8230; having come out the other side of the storm&#8230; sitting at a traffic light singing (off-key, mind you) my heart out. \u00a0That realization made me smile and almost wish I could&#8217;ve told that sad, scared version of myself that had sat at that same light a year or so earlier, that it WOULD be okay.<\/p>\n<p>For, as they say&#8230; THIS TOO SHALL PASS.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you&#8217;re in the middle of a storm&#8230; whether it&#8217;s an illness, a bad relationship or financial hardship&#8230; it can sometimes feel like you will never get out of it. \u00a0The darkness can seem so all-consuming that you wonder if you&#8217;ll ever see the light again. \u00a0It&#8217;s a trick that our brain plays on us&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":589,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[238,125,147,97,29,33,137,126,143,129,149,244,220,146,124,242,241,145,239,245,243,240,119,237],"class_list":["post-93","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-courage","tag-encouragement","tag-endurance","tag-faith","tag-fear","tag-god","tag-growth","tag-inspiration","tag-lessons","tag-lies","tag-life-lessons","tag-motivation","tag-patience","tag-perseverance","tag-positive-thinking","tag-problems","tag-storms","tag-strength","tag-strong","tag-this-too-shall-pass","tag-trauma","tag-trials","tag-truth","tag-will"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>This Too Shall Pass... - Simply Fabulous<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"noindex, nofollow\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"This Too Shall Pass... - Simply Fabulous\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"When you&#8217;re in the middle of a storm&#8230; 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