{"id":3376,"date":"2012-12-24T01:40:33","date_gmt":"2012-12-24T06:40:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/simplelife\/?p=3376"},"modified":"2012-12-24T11:00:20","modified_gmt":"2012-12-24T16:00:20","slug":"the-new-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/simplelife\/2012\/12\/the-new-mother.html","title":{"rendered":"The new mother"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/specialgathering.wordpress.com\/?attachment_id=7068\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7068\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/specialgathering.files.wordpress.com\/2012\/12\/going-to-hosptial.jpg\" alt=\"going to hosptial\" width=\"115\" height=\"65\" \/><\/a>I remember my husband, Frank, and I rushing to the hosptial. \u00a0It was Christmas eve. \u00a0I&#8217;d farmed out the other two children to willing neighbors in a pitch of fervor. \u00a0 Frank had refused to pick the name for a girl because he was convinced that this unplanned little one would be a boy. \u00a0I pressed him as he pressed the gas pedal.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/specialgathering.wordpress.com\/?attachment_id=7069\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7069\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/specialgathering.files.wordpress.com\/2012\/12\/carol-howard-merritt.jpg\" alt=\"Carol Howard Merritt\" width=\"140\" height=\"140\" \/><\/a>Finally, we settled on Carol Christa because Carol was my middle name and she was coming on Christmas eve. \u00a0She came quickly. \u00a0I&#8217;d convinced my uneducated doctor that natural child birth would work for me, since I&#8217;d had our son using natural methods.<\/p>\n<p>When the doctor anounced that I&#8217;d had a girl, I asked what he said, thinking he had made a mistake. \u00a0Our new babe was to be a boy, born the end of January. \u00a0Carol Christa, our Christmas baby was a total surprise. \u00a0Over the years, everything about her has been joyfully surprising.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/specialgathering.wordpress.com\/?attachment_id=7070\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-7070\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/specialgathering.files.wordpress.com\/2012\/12\/traveling.jpg\" alt=\"traveling\" width=\"246\" height=\"205\" \/><\/a>In some ways, I understand Mary. \u00a0As thrilled as she was to be the mother of Jesus, his birth was a bit inconvenient. \u00a0Later, he showed a love for His Father early. \u00a0Then he didn&#8217;t follow the regulated rules put forth by the temple experts. \u00a0Mary didn&#8217;t fully understand or consider the gifts of her son appropriate at times. \u00a0They didn&#8217;t always agree, Yet, he was gracious regarding her feelings and instructions. \u00a0She loved him dearly.<\/p>\n<p>Each Christmas eve holds a double blessing for me as I remember the birth of our third child and join into Mary&#8217;s joy and the confusion that would follow as her heavenly blessing was born.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remember my husband, Frank, and I rushing to the hosptial. \u00a0It was Christmas eve. \u00a0I&#8217;d farmed out the other two children to willing neighbors in a pitch of fervor. \u00a0 Frank had refused to pick the name for a girl because he was convinced that this unplanned little one would be a boy. \u00a0I&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":387,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[630,5,334,20,3,40,186,49,16,215,4,41],"tags":[756,632,21,688,633,631,696,7,699,262,715,701,6,687,700],"class_list":["post-3376","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-carol-merritt-howard","category-christianity","category-christmas","category-church","category-developmental-disabilities","category-faith","category-hope","category-inspiration","category-intellectual-disability","category-love","category-simple-truths","category-spirituality","tag-carol-merritt-howard","tag-childbirth","tag-christian","tag-christianity","tag-christmas-baby","tag-christmas-surprise","tag-church","tag-developmental-disabilities-2","tag-faith","tag-gods-grace","tag-hope","tag-inspiration","tag-simple-scriptural-truths","tag-simple-truths","tag-spirituality"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - 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