{"id":864,"date":"2016-07-08T14:35:39","date_gmt":"2016-07-08T14:35:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=864"},"modified":"2016-07-08T14:36:29","modified_gmt":"2016-07-08T14:36:29","slug":"words-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2016\/07\/words-matter.html","title":{"rendered":"Words Matter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday, I watched part of Director Comey&#8217;s testimony before Congress. It was fascinating. \u00a0As the hours wore on, he looked so weary and tired. I know this whole situation must be grueling.\u00a0I prayed for him as he testified that God would give him wisdom and integrity.<\/p>\n<p>I believe he is a good man put in an untenable spot. There was no way for him to win. \u00a0I don&#8217;t think the American people won, either.<\/p>\n<p>And once again, we see how words make a difference.<\/p>\n<p>We remember when Mr. Clinton testified about his relationship with Ms. Lewinsky and said, &#8220;It depends on what your definition of &#8220;is&#8221; is. \u00a0It seemed laughable at the time. To parse words to such a degree&#8230; Now it happens again.<\/p>\n<p>It depends on what &#8220;intent&#8221; means and how do you prove a person&#8217;s motive. \u00a0You can only look at surrounding circumstances and actions to get at an intent. The dictionary says the legal definition is, &#8220;the state of a person&#8217;s mind that directs his or her actions toward an objective&#8221;. Now how in the world can you determine that?\u00a0You can&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>But Director Comey seemed to think he could determine that Mrs. Clinton did not <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">intend<\/span> to be negligent in the handling of classified materials. Although he said she was careless and and ignorant technologically speaking. Well, I am too so I can understand her dilemma. However, I am not dealing with State secrets!<\/p>\n<p>It is important to say what we mean and mean what we say. Let&#8217;s be people known for integrity. \u00a0That way there will be no need to having \u00a0 hearings on our intentions.<\/p>\n<p>We all need to pray for our leaders to be people of integrity that seek God&#8217;s wisdom not just each other&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yesterday, I watched part of Director Comey&#8217;s testimony before Congress. It was fascinating. \u00a0As the hours wore on, he looked so weary and tired. 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