{"id":570,"date":"2014-12-01T14:43:59","date_gmt":"2014-12-01T14:43:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=570"},"modified":"2014-12-01T14:43:59","modified_gmt":"2014-12-01T14:43:59","slug":"stealing-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2014\/12\/stealing-christmas.html","title":{"rendered":"Stealing Christmas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever felt dull? Tired? Like the color gray?<\/p>\n<p>Just no joy in living. No spark of excitement. Everyone on FaceBook seems to have the joy and energy for the season- but you. With the holidays coming on you are supposed to be excited about family,shopping, cooking, decorating, wrapping, parties&#8230;no end to the things you have to &#8220;look forward to&#8221;. But you aren&#8217;t. You are dreading it.<\/p>\n<p>Add the fact that it is such an important spiritual occasion&#8230;now you feel guilty because you shouldn&#8217;t feel this way.<\/p>\n<p>You want it to be January 1st not December 1st.Well it&#8217;s not. You \u00a0just have to deal with it.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you take on too much and do what you think you are &#8220;supposed&#8221; to do &#8211; keeping up with neighbors and friends. Meeting expectations of friends and family. No. It&#8217;s OK not to keep up. Set limits on what you can realistically do and let the rest slide. I know I say it every year&#8230;and still get caught up in all the hype to &#8220;do and be&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>But that&#8217;s not really what Christmas is all about. This year I am going to eliminate one thing &#8211; just one. And when I do eliminate it, I want to use the time and energy I spent on that one thing to think about Jesus&#8217; birthday. The song is &#8220;Silent Night, Holy Night&#8221; &#8211; not &#8220;Jingle Bell Rock&#8221;. I need some silence and quiet in my life. Jesus did too &#8211; He took time out to be alone and pray.<\/p>\n<p>There is a radio station near me that has been playing solid Christmas music for a couple of weeks. I listen to it in the car &#8211; there has not been one Christmas Carol or hymn &#8211; at least while I am listening. Yesterday the announcer said he was going to play a Christmas hymn. I got excited and then heard Bing Crosby singing, &#8220;I&#8217;m Dreaming of a White Christmas&#8221;! That is NOT a Christmas hymn!<\/p>\n<p>Maybe our secular culture with it&#8217;s chaos and cacophony has so eroded the true meaning of Christmas that we can no longer find the joy in it. I refuse to let it.<\/p>\n<p>The greatest joy of all mankind, of all history is the reason for Christmas. 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