{"id":433,"date":"2014-02-03T22:42:14","date_gmt":"2014-02-03T22:42:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=433"},"modified":"2014-02-03T22:42:14","modified_gmt":"2014-02-03T22:42:14","slug":"guided-prayer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2014\/02\/guided-prayer.html","title":{"rendered":"Guided Prayer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is a prayer I sometimes use to guide my confessional prayer time&#8230;It may seem a bit formal but I find it helps. I am not sure of its source &#8211; perhaps the Anglican Prayer Book&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I find this formality helps me to see the holiness of God and His ways &#8211; that I am a truly sinful person! My righteousness is as filthy rags. I have nothing to stand on but His mercy and in His righteousness.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Holy and Merciful God, I confess to you that I have sinned agianst you in thought, word and deed, by what I have done , and by what I have left undone. I have not loved you with my whole heart, and mind, and strength. I have not loved my neighbor as myself. I have not forgiven others as I have been forgiven.\u00a0Have mercy on me, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I have not listened to your call to serve as Christ served me. I have not been true to the mind of Christ. I have grieved your Holy Spirit.\u00a0Have mercy on me, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I confess to you, O God, all my past unfaithfulness: the pride, hypocrisy and impatience in my life, not waiting on You.\u00a0I confess to you, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My self-indulgent appetites and ways, and my exploitation of other people.\u00a0I confess to you, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My anger, my own frustration and my envy of those more fortunate than me.\u00a0I confess to you, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My love of worldly goods and comforts, and my dishonesty in daily life and work.\u00a0I confess to you, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My negligence in prayer and worship, and my failure to commend the faith that is in me.\u00a0I confess to you, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Accept my repentance, O God, for the wrongs I have done. For my neglect of human need and sufferings and my indifference to injustice and cruelty. Accept my repentance, O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>For all false judgments, for uncharitable thoughts toward my neighbors, and for my prejudice and contempt for thsoe who differ from me, Accept my repentance , O God.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Restore me, O God, and let your anger depart form me.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Favorably hear me, O God, for your mercy is great.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I find this caused me to think&#8230;at first I was offended to confess I was indifferent to injustice&#8230;or exploitaion of other people&#8230; surely, that&#8217;s not me!<\/p>\n<p>But is it? Am I indifferent to the sufferings of those in Syria, the Sudan &#8211; do I hear the news and it doesn&#8217;t affect me? How &#8217;bout those in my own community suffering from the cold? Am I too usy thinking of my own needs and agendas?<\/p>\n<p>Surely I do not exploit others&#8230;or do I? What about the products I buy? 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