{"id":1254,"date":"2018-12-05T02:26:42","date_gmt":"2018-12-05T02:26:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=1254"},"modified":"2018-12-05T02:26:42","modified_gmt":"2018-12-05T02:26:42","slug":"mistaken-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2018\/12\/mistaken-identity.html","title":{"rendered":"Mistaken Identity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am grieved by the loss of one of America&#8217;s great men. President George H. W. Bush was a true patriot &#8211; politics aside &#8211; statesman, gentleman and friend to my father. There are pictures that are etched in my mind&#8230;one is of the dog &#8220;Sully&#8221; who was pictured laying in front of the casket. Sully had served the President in many helpful ways the last months of his life. He served his Commander well. <\/p>\n<p>There are those who disparaged that. I am not one of them.<\/p>\n<p>Number 43 loved dogs &#8211; of all stripes. He loved his family. His friends. His country. He was a man of principle and pride but not necessarily pride in himself or his accomplishments. He was a &#8220;team player&#8221; but willing to admit his mistakes. He could fight tooth and nail but then take his opponent to lunch. Rare in our day &#8211; so many cannot understand that now. He was a prince among men.<\/p>\n<p>A columnist with my same name has disparaged President Bush&#8217;s dog. It has come back on me. She is a columnist for a paper elsewhere and we do not think alike.<\/p>\n<p>I think you all know me well enough to know I would not disparage this great man or his dog. I am sorry this has happened. I would not add an ounce of sorrow to this family&#8217;s grief.<\/p>\n<p>As I said, there are many pictures etched in my mind. And more will be added in the next few days. It also brought back so many memories &#8211; bittersweet &#8211; of my own father&#8217;s passing and our trip up to Washington for him to &#8220;Lie in Repose&#8221; in the Rotunda. All good, sweet memories. But I do miss him so.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am grieved by the loss of one of America&#8217;s great men. President George H. W. Bush was a true patriot &#8211; politics aside &#8211; statesman, gentleman and friend to my father. 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