{"id":1137,"date":"2018-03-31T15:39:05","date_gmt":"2018-03-31T15:39:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=1137"},"modified":"2018-03-31T15:39:05","modified_gmt":"2018-03-31T15:39:05","slug":"waiting-with-broken-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2018\/03\/waiting-with-broken-hearts.html","title":{"rendered":"Waiting With Broken Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>They woke up on Saturday and asked themselves, &#8220;Was it real?&#8221;, &#8220;Did it really happen?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>But as they scanned the horizon they could still see, in the distance the three crosses outlined against the sky. They stood as a terrible reminder of the horror that had taken place. It had been real. He was dead. He was in a tomb.<\/p>\n<p>Now what? Would the Romans come after them and do the same to them? Should they get away and hide for a time till things cooled down?<\/p>\n<p>They huddled together for moral support &#8211; each sharing their own story of what they saw and felt. No, it had not been an awful night mare &#8211; it WAS real. They never imagined He would be beaten so viciously, scorned so cruelly, mocked so heartlessly nor that He would die a criminal&#8217;s death. <\/p>\n<p>It had all gone so wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Now what? They just couldn&#8217;t think clearly. None of them had slept much. And they&#8217;d just have to wait until morning when the women would go anoint the body with spices. They might need help &#8211; one last thing they could do for Him.<\/p>\n<p>But until then they just had to wait. Did they talk about the things He taught them? Did they read the scriptures &#8211; like the Psalms &#8211; to comfort themselves? <\/p>\n<p>They would just wait&#8230;with broken hearts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>They woke up on Saturday and asked themselves, &#8220;Was it real?&#8221;, &#8220;Did it really happen?&#8221; But as they scanned the horizon they could still see, in the distance the three crosses outlined against the sky. They stood as a terrible reminder of the horror that had taken place. It had been real. 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