{"id":1114,"date":"2018-03-05T19:11:48","date_gmt":"2018-03-05T19:11:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=1114"},"modified":"2018-03-05T19:11:48","modified_gmt":"2018-03-05T19:11:48","slug":"burying-ones-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2018\/03\/burying-ones-father.html","title":{"rendered":"Taking Daddy Home"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>These have been remarkable days as we have seen the outpouring  love for my father which overflowed to me. Such a blessing to all of us. If you haven&#8217;t seen the coverage then I suggest you go to the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association and watch.<\/p>\n<p>Quite incredible from the motorcade from The Cove to Charlotte &#8211; then on to the Capital in Washington where Daddy was honored by &#8220;Lying in Honor&#8221; in the Rotunda. An honor given to only 4 other people in our history and Daddy is the only clergyman to do so.<\/p>\n<p>Then back to Charlotte to take him home. One final plane ride&#8230;it was emotional to see them unload his casket into the hearse for his final trip into Charlotte for the memorial service on Friday. <\/p>\n<p>It was freezing in the tent! Daddy started in a tent in Los Angeles and Franklin thought it would be appropriate. Fortunately, my older sister brought an extra coat for which I was grateful. <\/p>\n<p>Each of us had 3 minutes to speak. I asked the Lord to help me and He did. I felt the freedom from the Holy Spirit to talk of my father&#8217;s lasting legacy to me. It touched many hearts for which I am grateful. I want to pass on my father&#8217;s legacy of grace.<\/p>\n<p>I stayed until he was buried &#8211; even though it was so cold &#8211; but I didn&#8217;t want him to be alone. I went back the next day to see it all finished and landscaped. At long last Mother and Daddy are side by side!<\/p>\n<p>And they are enjoying all the splendor of Heaven talking with God face to face.<\/p>\n<p>But how do I feel? To be honest I am sort of numb. While it wasn&#8217;t unexpected, it was a surprise. I haven&#8217;t begun to process all my emotions. I am in &#8220;survival mode&#8221; doing what needs to be done.<\/p>\n<p>On top of everything else, a tree fell onto my daughter&#8217;s house so they have no heat and are staying with me. My refrigerator is on the &#8220;fritz&#8221;. Not good timing. <\/p>\n<p>So there has not been a quiet time to think. Reflect. But God has been working wonderful ways and I praise Him that I have seen His hand in a multitude situations that could have been difficult. God just paved the way.<\/p>\n<p>He keeps His promises of Isaiah 40:4-5.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>These have been remarkable days as we have seen the outpouring love for my father which overflowed to me. 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