{"id":1099,"date":"2018-01-02T21:54:50","date_gmt":"2018-01-02T21:54:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=1099"},"modified":"2018-01-02T21:54:50","modified_gmt":"2018-01-02T21:54:50","slug":"memories-not-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2018\/01\/memories-not-money.html","title":{"rendered":"Memories Not Money"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Happy New Year!<\/p>\n<p>I just got back this afternoon from spending time at my father&#8217;s home spending some time with him.<\/p>\n<p>This year I determined to give my children and grandchildren &#8220;memories not money&#8221;! (My youngest daughter couldn&#8217;t go because her son was ill. &#8211; We missed her terribly.) I took them to visit my father &#8211; stay in his home, which they didn&#8217;t remember doing, see it all decorated for Christmas and sleep in the attic like I did. (It&#8217;s a nice attic.)<\/p>\n<p>We drove up to Boone, NC to have lunch with Franklin and Jane and some of their family then got a tour of Samaritan&#8217;s Purse. They had never been there and it had been years since I was there. It has grown!! Very impressive.That evening we had dinner with Franklin&#8217;s eldest, Will, and enjoyed him.<\/p>\n<p>The next day we toured The Biltmore House &#8211; all decorated for Christmas. It was a mob scene &#8211; you almost couldn&#8217;t see the house for all the people!  It had been years since I was there. Lots of changes and new rooms open. I got a copy of &#8220;The Lady on the Hill&#8221; &#8211; all about the preservation efforts by the Cecil family to keep it going &#8211; and robustly. Interesting, to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>We had an ice storm so the kids got snowed in at &#8220;Daddy Bill&#8217;s&#8221;. Fun. <\/p>\n<p>They loved exploring around the house &#8211; seeing all the little cubby holes and &#8220;secret&#8221; places. A kid&#8217;s place for sure. They hiked the mountain &#8211; it&#8217;s different in the winter with a frozen pond and streams. They had so much fun discovering the place for themselves and I know my mother was looking down enjoying them enjoying the place she built for her family.<\/p>\n<p>My son took me out for a lovely lunch at a &#8220;ta da&#8221; restaurant in Asheville. Some of the best food I have ever put in my mouth. We had a really nice time.<\/p>\n<p>We visited with our &#8220;Korean&#8221; cousins. One of the girls was hospitalized briefly in Asheville so Noelle and I bombed in to see her and caught glimpse of even more cousins.<\/p>\n<p>My youngest brother and his wife flew in the 31st. We hadn&#8217;t seen each other in years. And drat! we did not take a photo.<\/p>\n<p>I saw a niece and nephew as well as a great nephew and his wife, celebrating their 3rd anniversary. And others&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230;mission accomplished. 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