{"id":1083,"date":"2017-12-12T17:04:48","date_gmt":"2017-12-12T17:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/?p=1083"},"modified":"2017-12-12T17:09:00","modified_gmt":"2017-12-12T17:09:00","slug":"strangers-but-sisters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/safeplacewithruthgraham\/2017\/12\/strangers-but-sisters.html","title":{"rendered":"Strangers&#8230;But Sisters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Push is coming to shove now&#8230;Christmas is just 2 weeks away and I have birthdays before and after and a 3-day trip. How will<br \/>\nI ever get ready?<\/p>\n<p>My neighbor had a lovely party Saturday night. Her house was beautifully decorated &#8211; as was the whole neighborhood. Yes, I did get my house somewhat decorated &#8211; my oldest daughter helped bring the smaller tree from the attic so it could go by the front door as  well as 3 pretty red lanterns with &#8220;automatic&#8221; candles inside.<\/p>\n<p>On Saturday, we had 2 inches of snow so it was very Christmassy. The houses were all decorated &#8211; lights twinkling from every window. The &#8220;town&#8221; Christmas tree was all lit up and everything looked so festive. As I walked out the door, I could hear voices coming from every corner. And as we left, I could hear each one call &#8220;Merry Christmas!&#8221; Almost like in the movie, &#8220;It&#8217;s a Wonderful Life&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Then yesterday I was ordering Christmas gifts on-line but was frustrated with one website &#8211; it wasn&#8217;t doing what i thought it should so I called their 800 number. A very pleasant woman said rather than her take my order she would help me with the on-line order as that would give me better discounts and advantages. I was all for that!<\/p>\n<p>We chatted a bit and she indicated her husband was a minister. I told her I was ordained, too. <\/p>\n<p>When It came time to give my credit card information, I gave the name on the card: Ruth B. Graham. She took it down and then said, &#8220;You have a famous name&#8221;. I replied, &#8220;I have a famous father.&#8221; She didn&#8217;t comment. But she continued to ask for information. Shortly, she tentatively asked me, &#8220;Are you by any chance related to Billy Graham?&#8221; I told her he was my father. She was so pleased &#8211; she had been a counsellor in his Cleveland crusade years before. She loved him and my family. <\/p>\n<p>In our conversation she indicated she has two grown children who are &#8220;prodigals&#8221;. The church has not been kind to her husband &#8211; he is in a new church now &#8211; not as senior pastor &#8211; but the senior pastor is good and her husband enjoys working with him. The transition hasn&#8217;t been easy. <\/p>\n<p>As we wound up the order, I asked if I could pray for her. She agreed. I prayed for her two children and her husband. I told her to tell him not to get discouraged; God would honor his faithfulness to His Word.<\/p>\n<p>What an unexpected gift for both of us! I was just ordering from a stranger&#8230;an ordinary act &#8211; she was just taking orders from strangers who called in. An ordinary day. <\/p>\n<p>But we had a divine encounter! While we started as strangers we finished as sisters!<\/p>\n<p>Only Jesus can do that!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Push is coming to shove now&#8230;Christmas is just 2 weeks away and I have birthdays before and after and a 3-day trip. How will I ever get ready? 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