{"id":81,"date":"2010-10-28T14:52:23","date_gmt":"2010-10-28T14:52:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/rabbishmuleyunleashed\/2010\/10\/how-obama-lost-his-magic.html"},"modified":"2010-10-28T14:52:23","modified_gmt":"2010-10-28T14:52:23","slug":"how-obama-lost-his-magic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/rabbishmuleyunleashed\/2010\/10\/how-obama-lost-his-magic.htm","title":{"rendered":"How Obama Lost his Magic"},"content":{"rendered":"


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The erosion of Barack Obama’s popularity has lessons in it for every American who wishes to remain interesting and current, both professionally and personally. The real story in this election is not that America has no jobs, that the economy continues to falter, or that the national debt continues to balloon. While all three are true and, more importantly, Obama has failed to fix them, it is also true that these conditions existed prior to Obama’s election. Yet somehow his personal charisma and captivating charm elevated the electorate. The real story of campaign 2010 is how boring Obama has become. Obama, who had never run anything except a campaign in his entire life, performed an almost unprecedented conjuring act in 2008, getting the electorate to embrace him regardless of the utter absence of managerial skills. They believed not necessarily in Obama’s capacity to fix America’s transient problems but in his ability to focus us on more eternal, upbeat themes like hope, faith, and the future. Yet, this time his very presence seems irritating. A man whose oratory lifted him to earth’s highest office can’t seem to deliver a single uplifting speech. As a connoisseur of great oratory, I used to love hearing Obama’s staccato delivery, perfect timing, and mesmeric self-confidence – the mark of any great speaker – even as I disagreed with him on many of the issues. But Obama’s speeches have now become insufferable, devoid of charisma and personal magnetism. Here are three principal reasons why.<\/span><\/p>\n


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First and foremost, Obama has utterly
\noverexposed himself. <\/i>As a marriage counselor I always advise husbands and
\nwives that, paradoxically, their marriages require intimacy on the one hand,
\nbut barriers and distance on the other. Wives walking around a bedroom
\nunclothed, for example, is an invitation to erotic boredom and a dilution of
\nbody’s natural attractiveness. Overexposure, as everyone knows, breeds
\ncontempt. The Catholic Church is a master of mystery – from the shadows of its
\ndarkly lit gothic cathedrals to its insistence on innumerable  divine
\nmysteries – and it is therefore no wonder that it grew to become the world’s
\nlargest faith. It is the same reason why, in Judaism, Torah scrolls are
\nsecreted in an ark, obscured first by doors, then curtains, then a velvet
\ncovering, all of which increases hiddenness and thus reverence. In Hollywood it
\nis specifically those celebrities who understand the need to stay out of the public
\neye that achieve the greatest longevity in it. Obama, by contrast, has the
\nunfortunate flaw of always needing to be loved. He is forever in our face. From
\nweighing in on every issue right down to the Ground Zero mosque to becoming the
\nPresident who travelled most in his first two years, Obama lives permanently in
\nthe sun. President Bush used to vacation on his ranch where he’d disappear for
\ntwo weeks. Not so Obama who even on holiday is constantly photographed buying
\nice cream and shooting hoops. Less is more, Mr. President. Sometimes you have
\nto give the people the opportunity to miss you. Superman knows that his grand
\nentrances depend on being disguised the rest of the time as Clark Kent. But by
\nbeing forever available, Obama has made himself pedestrian. He went from
\nMessiah to mortal, rock star to bland stone.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Second, Obama has betrayed a lack of
\nsubstance.<\/i> When he was more mysterious, Obama encouraged our belief that
\nthere was subterranean depth beneath the gleaming surface. Just give the man
\nsome time and out will come the magic. But it turned out that vacuous speeches
\non hope and change were not the thin veneer that concealed great complexity but
\nthe very substance itself. I have yet to hear one truly new or exciting idea
\nfrom Barack Obama since becoming President. President Bush was dismissed as a
\nlightweight. But love it or hate it, the Bush doctrine of preemption and its
\ncorollary of exporting democracy to recalcitrant states was a compelling and
\ndivisive idea that invited ferocious debate. But with Obama we are back to the
\ntired, yawn-inducing discussions of big versus limited government and whether
\nKeynesian stimulus spending or reducing the national debt is the best way to
\nkindle the economy. I’m bored.<\/span><\/p>\n

Third, Obama comes across as perfect.<\/i>
\nThe most interesting people are always the most tortured. Bill Clinton clogged
\nhis arteries with cheeseburgers and had sex with an intern in the Oval office.
\nYet, he left the presidency with a sixty percent approval rating. America never
\nlost its fascination with this angst-ridden and highly imperfect leader, so
\nunpredictable that we never knew what he’d get up to next. Not so
\nno-drama-Obama who evinces an imperturbable cool utterly bereft of inner
\ntrauma. Of course we don’t want the President to cheat on his wife. But show us
\na tiny demon or two, other than the fact that you light up a cigarette.
\nDemonstrate that you wrestle with moods the way we do when we can’t pay our
\nbills, that you struggle with life’s disappointments like us ordinary mortals.
\nWhen I was a boy I revered but had no deep interest in our founding fathers
\nbecause they were portrayed as marble busts who were perfect. It was only later
\nwhen we discovered how inconsistent the slave-owning Thomas Jefferson could be
\nabout human freedom, how depressed and suicidal Lincoln became, and how Martin
\nLuther King, Jr. wrestled with marriage that these aloof figures were humanized
\nand became so endlessly fascinating. In this sense I believe Obama was poorly
\nserved by seemingly being a golden boy who suffered few setbacks. Perhaps it’s
\ntime for him to talk about the pain of being an abandoned child who was later
\norphaned of his mother as well, or the pain of seeing his popularity plummet.
\nPerfect people are boring and monolithic. But flawed human beings who rise
\nabove adversity to reach great heights are inspirational. And if the President
\nwants to recapture the public imagination, he would do well to expose a wart or
\ntwo before the November elections.<\/span><\/p>\n

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