{"id":26,"date":"2010-01-27T10:46:28","date_gmt":"2010-01-27T10:46:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/rabbishmuleyunleashed\/2010\/01\/changing-englewoods-house-of-terror-into-a-home-of-jewish-values.html"},"modified":"2010-01-27T10:46:28","modified_gmt":"2010-01-27T10:46:28","slug":"changing-englewoods-house-of-terror-into-a-home-of-jewish-values","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/rabbishmuleyunleashed\/2010\/01\/changing-englewoods-house-of-terror-into-a-home-of-jewish-values.htm","title":{"rendered":"Changing Englewood&#8217;s House of Terror into a Home of Jewish Values"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Press<br \/>\nreports this week stated that I was seeking to buy the Libyan compound<br \/>\nnext door to me in order to establish an international center for<br \/>\nJewish values. These reports are accurate.<\/p>\n<p>Aside from wanting to<br \/>\npush the Libyans out of New Jersey, which has 39 families that still<br \/>\ngrieve over loved ones lost over Lockerbie, I have long wished to<br \/>\nestablish a permanent institute for the identification and<br \/>\ndissemination of Judaism&#8217;s core values. A place where scholars and<br \/>\nstudents can publish Judaism&#8217;s answers to the great social challenges<br \/>\nfacing our nation. A values-based institute that will due for Judaism<br \/>\nwhat, say, the Heritage Foundation has done for Conservatism, spreading<br \/>\nJudaism&#8217;s unique wisdom on the great issues of our time.<\/p>\n<p><i><span><a href=\"mailto:info@thisworld.us\"><\/a><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>America faces four great social crises. The first is growing<br \/>\nmaterialism and an addiction to greed. The second is the collapse of<br \/>\nthe family, skyrocketing divorce rates, and singles who date<br \/>\nrecreationally but do not commit. The third is the dominance of<br \/>\ncelebrity culture and an obsession with fame, rendering non-showy<br \/>\nachievement almost irrelevant by comparison. And the fourth is the<br \/>\ndepression and unhappiness that is becoming endemic in American<br \/>\nsociety, with the United States consuming three quarters of the earth&#8217;s<br \/>\nanti-depressants and one out of three American women on Prozac, Zoloft,<br \/>\nand Paxil.<\/p>\n<p>These four challenges will only be addressed through a new set of<br \/>\nAmerican values. No longer can the Forbes 400 determine who matters.<br \/>\nAnd there was must be some stigma attached to men who make a buck and<br \/>\nimmediately drop a wife of 25 years in favor of some hot, young thing.<br \/>\nLikewise must teenagers learn that helping their parents with household<br \/>\nchores and volunteering to raise money for Haiti is more noble than<br \/>\nwinning American idol. And happiness? Well, that can only come from a<br \/>\nlife that has purpose. Narcissism is a prison that breeds loneliness<br \/>\nand depression.<\/p>\n<p>Never before has Judaism been so much in need for its values. While<br \/>\nChristianity speaks of getting into heaven, Judaism says that paradise<br \/>\nis found around a functional family that gathers for Friday night<br \/>\nShabbat dinners. While Islam seems obsessed with its humiliation at the<br \/>\nhands of Western power and progress, Judaism says real shame stems from<br \/>\ntaking a noble world religion and treading on G-d&#8217;s greatest teaching,<br \/>\nto love one&#8217;s fellow man as oneself, and to treat others and we<br \/>\nourselves wish to be treated, as Hillel declared.<\/p>\n<p>Pat Robertson may have indicted all of Haiti for having, as he says,<br \/>\nbeen in league with the devil. But Judaism cites the example of Abraham<br \/>\nwho lifted his fists to the heavens when notified of the coming<br \/>\ndestruction of Sodom, crying out to G-d, &#8220;Shall the Judge of the entire<br \/>\nearth not Himself practice justice?&#8221; It speaks of Moses challenging G-d<br \/>\nthat if He were indeed to destroy the Jews after the sin of the Golden<br \/>\ncalf then, &#8220;Blot my name out of your Torah.&#8221; Where Christian leaders<br \/>\nindict man and exonerate G-d in the wake of Hurricane Katrina, Jews<br \/>\nhave always accused G-d and exonerated man whenever innocents have<br \/>\nperished. G-d does not need defense attorneys. But vulnerable and<br \/>\npowerless humans do.<\/p>\n<p>How is that we have kept all these treasures to ourselves? Yes, we<br \/>\nare not a proselytizing people, believing that one need not become a<br \/>\nJew in order to draw close to G-d. Each of His children may have a<br \/>\nrelationship with Him by living a righteous life, however they were<br \/>\nborn and whatever they believe.<\/p>\n<p>But there is so much healing the world can gain from Jewish wisdom.<br \/>\nShould we not try and give America a single national family dinner<br \/>\nnight, on Fridays, where kids stop texting and parents start talking?<br \/>\nShould we not teach men that while evolution says they are walking<br \/>\nsperm banks, Judaism says they are, at heart, not sex but intimacy<br \/>\nseekers, and that, try as they might to find sexual adventure with<br \/>\nwomen other than their wives they will never be satisfied because only<br \/>\ntheir soul mate can understand their heart? Would this teaching not<br \/>\nhave saved Tiger Woods who acted as a champion on the golf course but<br \/>\nas a slave to his libido?<\/p>\n<p>Christianity maintains that people do not have real choice, that<br \/>\nnotwithstanding righteous action they were born in sin and only faith<br \/>\nin Christ can save them. Freud likewise maintained that we are not the<br \/>\nmasters in our mental household as we might have supposed and that an<br \/>\nuncivilized Id would always rear its ugly head. Modern science echoes<br \/>\nthe sentiment with its emphasis on genetic predisposition that goes<br \/>\nagainst the belief we are in control of our actions. But amid this<br \/>\ntriple assault on free will, Judaism stands alone in maintaining, as<br \/>\nits most basic foundation, that our lives are unscripted and we can<br \/>\nbecome whatever we choose to be. Astrology is a sham, as is every other<br \/>\nsupposed limitation on our capacity to chart our own destiny.<\/p>\n<p>I am currently embroiled in a dispute with my Congressman, Steve<br \/>\nRothman, for his misguided press release defending the Libyan<br \/>\nAmbassador&#8217;s right to dwell in Englewood based on an agreement he<br \/>\nhelped broker 27 years ago. Likewise, I am profoundly disappointed with<br \/>\nEnglewood&#8217;s city officials for allowing the Libyans to live tax-free,<br \/>\neven as they have now informed me that they are beginning to bring<br \/>\npressure on the Libyans to pay for basic city services rather than<br \/>\nhaving Englewood&#8217;s hard-pressed citizens, who are taxed to the max,<br \/>\nsubsidize an oil-rich dictatorship.<\/p>\n<p>But I am prepared to bury the hatchet with both groups if they do<br \/>\nthe honorable thing and get behind a sensible plan to transform the<br \/>\nLibyan mission from a home, quite literally, of an enemy of the State<br \/>\nof Israel &#8211; the Ambassador Shalgham recently accused Israel of War<br \/>\nCrimes in the UN Security Council, and last March his mission accused<br \/>\nIsrael of turning Gaza into a concentration camp &#8211; into an institute<br \/>\nfor the dissemination of family values, moral instruction, and a higher<br \/>\nlife calling.<\/p>\n<p>My Congressman and city officials can begin by approaching the<br \/>\nLibyans to discuss a sale and to inform them, in no uncertain terms,<br \/>\nthat their sojourn in Englewood is simply untenable. I look forward to<br \/>\ntheir response.\n<\/p>\n<p><i><br \/>Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is the founder of This World: The Values<br \/>\nNetwork, whose signature campaign, Turn Friday Night Into Family Night,<br \/>\ncan be found at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fridayisfamily.com\/\">http:\/\/www.fridayisfamily.com<\/a>. He will shortly publish a comprehensive book on Jewish Values. To get involved in the organization, write to <span><a href=\"mailto:info@thisworld.us\">info@thisworld.us<\/a><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Press reports this week stated that I was seeking to buy the Libyan compound next door to me in order to establish an international center for Jewish values. These reports are accurate. 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