{"id":2481,"date":"2012-05-17T15:10:14","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T15:10:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/projectconversion\/?p=2481"},"modified":"2012-05-17T15:10:31","modified_gmt":"2012-05-17T15:10:31","slug":"the-bahai-study-circle-a-trip-down-memory-lane","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/projectconversion\/2012\/05\/the-bahai-study-circle-a-trip-down-memory-lane.html","title":{"rendered":"Attending Baha&#8217;i Study Circle: A Trip Down Memory Lane"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My phone rang around 4:30 yesterday afternoon, just as I had finished washing a sink full of dishes. I looked at the caller I.D. and smiled. I tapped the &#8220;answer&#8221; button and said, &#8220;Allah&#8217;u&#8217;Abha!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It was my Baha&#8217;i Mentor from February of 2011, Dr. McCormick. She still gets tickled by the fact that I remember the Baha&#8217;i greeting.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Allah&#8217;u&#8217;Abha Andrew, how are you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh I&#8217;m hanging in there. What can I do for you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, I know you&#8217;re busy these days, but we&#8217;re having Study Circle tonight and I wondered if you&#8217;d like to attend?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stopped drying a plate. &#8220;Did you say &#8216;we&#8217;?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes! There are a few people coming over who are investigating and I thought who better to help me than my old student.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Frankly, she had me at Allah&#8217;u&#8217;Abha.<!--more--><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2482\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2482\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/projectconversion\/files\/2012\/05\/Study-Circle.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2482\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/291\/2012\/05\/Study-Circle-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2482\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Study Circle with my Baha&#039;i Mentor during Project Conversion<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>A little bit of back story.<\/p>\n<p>Dr. McCormick was a proverbial needle in a haystack. According to the Baha&#8217;i locator feature on the American Baha&#8217;i website, she was the only registered Baha&#8217;i in my small town of Lumberton. She existed in isolation, so when I contacted her last year about Project Conversion, she was elated that she&#8217;d have a Baha&#8217;i family of her own, even if for only a month.<\/p>\n<p>We met weekly in her home for Study Circles, times of study and devotion with Baha&#8217;i texts and those of other faiths. Our time together was fantastic, however short lived. I eventually had to leave the Baha&#8217;i Faith for my next month on the journey and thus Dr. McCormick was left alone once more.<\/p>\n<p>Yet destiny had other plans.<\/p>\n<p>Upon sharing my experience with the Baha&#8217;i Faith with my Intro to Religion class at the local community college, a young woman expressed interest in the faith and converted soon after. Dr. McCormick now enjoyed a small Baha&#8217;i family of her own, however the new convert moved out of state a few months later.<\/p>\n<p>Fast forward a little over a year later. Now, Dr. McCormick is hosting a Study Circle with six people. I couldn&#8217;t be happier, for my Baha&#8217;i Mentor was no longer in isolation.<\/p>\n<p>As is her tradition, she prepared a meal for the group. Persian rice with chicken, bread rolls, fruit, and salad were passed around the table. I sat and listed to the stories of these spiritual explorers as I fingered a set of prayer beads a Baha&#8217;i man from Maine gifted to me in February of last year. Folks from various backgrounds all searching for meaning and truth.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So Andrew,&#8221; the woman next to me asked, &#8220;How long have you been a Baha&#8217;i?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dr. McCormick and I traded glances.<\/p>\n<p>I smiled, &#8220;This time? Only for the last half hour.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She winced. &#8220;What do you mean by &#8216;this time&#8217;?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dr. McCormick and I explained our time together during Project Conversion and suddenly my statement became clear.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I always said that Andrew should come back to us because we had the shortest month in February,&#8221; Dr. McCormick quipped.<\/p>\n<p>Once we finished dinner, Dr. McCormick poured black tea into small, glass cups. The earthy scent, laced with a hint of orange transported me back in time to when our Study Circles were merely a study line because it was only the two of us. Now Dr. McCormick shared her faith with a proper group.<\/p>\n<p>When one of the visitors asked about the major qualities of the faith, Dr. McCormick, surprisingly, deferred to me. I was once again explaining the faith to an interested soul. It was happening again: I had slipped on the garments of another religion.<\/p>\n<p>And it felt as naturally as breathing.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s twice it&#8217;s happened this week. First with Bethany and her interest in Sanatana Dharma (Hinduism), and now with Baha&#8217;i. In both cases it felt as though my own sense of identity became transparent and I assumed the form of another. Like an octopus which morphs according to its surroundings, my inner color and contour shifted with my environment.<\/p>\n<p>It will happen again, in another 45 minutes, when I attend weekly Mass at my local Catholic church.<\/p>\n<p>What does this make me? Confused, searching, a charlatan, amorphous, a fraud?<\/p>\n<p>Each is entitled to their own opinion, but I like what my wife had to say:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think you&#8217;re just open to interpretation.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jai Vita.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My phone rang around 4:30 yesterday afternoon, just as I had finished washing a sink full of dishes. I looked at the caller I.D. and smiled. I tapped the &#8220;answer&#8221; button and said, &#8220;Allah&#8217;u&#8217;Abha!&#8221; It was my Baha&#8217;i Mentor from February of 2011, Dr. McCormick. 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